writing. seriously though you guys would all be like 'er ok too much information' if i mentioned every time i have sex with alex on lj. it's just stuff that no one really needs or wants to know
no by no one i mean no one. i have nothing against aaron's entrys about missing you but seriously, the constant entrys about his turn ons and shit and you guys having sex is just annoying. if i was saying this stuff about alex on my lj i know i would have a load of abusive comments from you saying that it is gross. so i think that it's perfectly acceptable for me to make my opinions clear aswell. and there is no reason to have some petty fight over me not wanting to constantly hear about your sex life. it's just childish.
'Had sex' is probably the most inexplicit and tame way of mentioning it. And for all anyone knows or cares i could have been joking. Stop getting pissed off at me for bizarre and pathetic reasons please.
ok, i will say again that i am not pissed off. i was merely expressing an opinion, much like you/liv would probably do if i had said the same. all i did was express that i didn't want to hear it and it has been taken way too far. why cant you guys just accept that i don't want to hear it and move on?
constant is a huuuge exagerration. & i don't see anyone else commenting about how gross and/or annoying it is. it may seem like a trivial thing for me to get upset about, but honestly, you're supposed to be my best friend? i don't tell you to shut up when you talk about your sex life with alex, yeah i may complain and leave the room when you're passionately making out in front of me but i always listen to you go on about him without telling you i don't want to hear it. it's not really fair to say that i would leave you abusive comments because i know i wouldn't, i even go to you with questions about these things when i need advice. it isn't childish. it's pretty hurtful when your best friend obviously has a negative opinion about you and your boyfriend, and although i'm not always interested in all the stuff you tell me about alex (even though it's not sexual) i still listen to you and let you talk about it.
kay a part of that made no sense, no you don't really talk to me about sex stuff with alex but if you did i wouldn't be negative about it. that's what friends are for, i thought. & yes you are allowed to have a negative opinion about me and aaron, fair enough, but it's still hurtful to me when you express it and so you should understand when i get upset about it.
ok i never mention sexual stuff with alex EVER unless asked basically because i don't feel like that anyone else would really want to know OR appreciate it
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you aren't losing my friendship over this, you know perfectly well that things have been shit lately and this just pissed me off. i know you never mention sex stuff which is why i said: 'no you don't really talk to me about sex stuff with alex but if you did i wouldn't be negative about it'.i hardly ever talk about aaron to you unless you ask about him, because i know how boring it gets when someone talks about nothing but their boyfriend all the time
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ok the hair thing did hurt me, because you had nothing better to say about the pictures. just take it that it did hurt me and leave it. the fact that i don't want to hear about your sex is also not related to your relationship, it is just an opinion of mine. i'm not saying don't have sex have all the sex you want all i was saying is that i don't particularly want to know. and i'm really sorry if i'm such a bitch recently but i dont think that a small fight over an english book and an opinion about a livejournal comment really constitutes as 'doing nothing but getting on each others nerves'. you cant even comprehend half of the stuff i am dealing with right now and to be honest this is the last thing i really want to deal with so i am just going to leave it. if you want to have the last word on this then do but i don't want to talk about it anymore. you don't have to be my friend if it's such a hassle but it would really hurt me to lose the only friend that i have right now apart from alex.
it's not a hassle to be your friend. you're my best friend and i love you. but it seems like we've really been drifting apart lately over stupid things, not just this, i guess i'm the only one who's noticed it. maybe i'm exaggerating it but i swear it's happening. and it really does make me want to cry just thinking about it.
i love you too. i guess i've sort of noticed it but have been really wrapped up in my own world recently to do anything about it. the last thing that i want at the moment is to lose you, i don't have any other close friends left and i know this is my fault and to lose you as well would really push me over the edge. seriously, i've spent most of the evening crying to alex about this. i don't know how to fix it, but it probably has something to do with the fact that we both have boyfriends and both put our time with them before the time and effort that we put into seeing each other. i dunno, what do you think?
and he doesn't mention every time he has sex. he said it once. briefly. in passing. with no description or explicit comments. it's really not all that revolting.
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seriously though you guys would all be like 'er ok too much information' if i mentioned every time i have sex with alex on lj.
it's just stuff that no one really needs or wants to know
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i have nothing against aaron's entrys about missing you but seriously, the constant entrys about his turn ons and shit and you guys having sex is just annoying.
if i was saying this stuff about alex on my lj i know i would have a load of abusive comments from you saying that it is gross.
so i think that it's perfectly acceptable for me to make my opinions clear aswell.
and there is no reason to have some petty fight over me not wanting to constantly hear about your sex life. it's just childish.
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And when did i ever mention my 'turn ons'?
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i was merely expressing an opinion, much like you/liv would probably do if i had said the same.
all i did was express that i didn't want to hear it and it has been taken way too far. why cant you guys just accept that i don't want to hear it and move on?
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& i don't see anyone else commenting about how gross and/or annoying it is.
it may seem like a trivial thing for me to get upset about, but honestly, you're supposed to be my best friend? i don't tell you to shut up when you talk about your sex life with alex, yeah i may complain and leave the room when you're passionately making out in front of me but i always listen to you go on about him without telling you i don't want to hear it. it's not really fair to say that i would leave you abusive comments because i know i wouldn't, i even go to you with questions about these things when i need advice.
it isn't childish. it's pretty hurtful when your best friend obviously has a negative opinion about you and your boyfriend, and although i'm not always interested in all the stuff you tell me about alex (even though it's not sexual) i still listen to you and let you talk about it.
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that's what friends are for, i thought.
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yes you are allowed to have a negative opinion about me and aaron, fair enough, but it's still hurtful to me when you express it and so you should understand when i get upset about it.
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i know you never mention sex stuff which is why i said: 'no you don't really talk to me about sex stuff with alex but if you did i wouldn't be negative about it'.i hardly ever talk about aaron to you unless you ask about him, because i know how boring it gets when someone talks about nothing but their boyfriend all the time ( ... )
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the fact that i don't want to hear about your sex is also not related to your relationship, it is just an opinion of mine.
i'm not saying don't have sex have all the sex you want all i was saying is that i don't particularly want to know.
and i'm really sorry if i'm such a bitch recently but i dont think that a small fight over an english book and an opinion about a livejournal comment really constitutes as 'doing nothing but getting on each others nerves'.
you cant even comprehend half of the stuff i am dealing with right now and to be honest this is the last thing i really want to deal with so i am just going to leave it.
if you want to have the last word on this then do but i don't want to talk about it anymore.
you don't have to be my friend if it's such a hassle but it would really hurt me to lose the only friend that i have right now apart from alex.
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seriously, i've spent most of the evening crying to alex about this.
i don't know how to fix it, but it probably has something to do with the fact that we both have boyfriends and both put our time with them before the time and effort that we put into seeing each other.
i dunno, what do you think?
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he said it once.
briefly.
in passing.
with no description or explicit comments.
it's really not all that revolting.
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