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ok thast cool dudes... i write my damn life story in the last one, and all i get is like 6 comments minus my own.. this is unacceptable!!!... i know i have more friends than that because my friends list says so... i know more people read my shit even though they dont have an lj because they have told me so... and i know i have some credibility cuz
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I love the fact that you are willing to explore this topic and so openly too. I, as you have already pointed out once this week, am a constant analyzer, so it is comforting to see that other people do think about things with the same level of umm...how shall we say intensity. But, to the subject at hand. I tend to disagree with the way you make all of this sound like such a painful process of which we have no control over. Granted, having your life turned upside down and a potential fear of rejection should be intimidating, but the pay-offs of friendship and intimacy should be worth the risk. This summer, I had a lot of time to do a lot of thinking. Love should not be this insanely difficult process we all fear based on our egos and our perceptions of our parents perfect or imperfect relationships. And, while I do believe there is something divinely inspired about love, I don't think that its a ton of bricks waiting to fall on your head. Everyone has within in him this spark of greater humanity and when your soul, for whatever random reason, for even just a moment, touches another person's, then you have two choices you act or don't act again for whatever reason. It is this action or inaction which spurs a relationship which in turn causes love to grow. In my humble (yeah right!), opinion mind you. Maybe for men it is a ton of bricks...I don't know. But, for women at least, I think it is a desire to seek and share intimacy with someone, which is a very active process, and mentally exhausting by the way. So in essence, I think your "ton of bricks" may be more ummmmm...engineered than you think. It's how you respond to said ton of bricks that really matters. Have an awesome day Eddie.
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