May 24, 2009 07:37
I've decided recently that I'm going to focus on becoming more aggressive towards becoming confident. I mean this in the sense of being comfortable with approaching, talking to and, obviously, asking out women. I had an epiphany the other night about some truths that made me realize this would be a good goal for me.
- I'm a good looking guy
- I have a killer smile
- I'm (usually) funny
- I'm intelligent
- I'm (usually) good natured
- My weight affects MY view of myself more than it affects that of others
- I've never had what I consider an unattractive girlfriend.
I'm not trying to sound arrogant with these things - I apologize if I did. Rather, I look at these traits coupled with the last two on the list, and I realized that it's only myself that holds me back. When I HAVE talked to women, the interaction has generally been good and seemingly sincere. So, I'm going to start using that potential a little more wisely.
Love to all and thanks for listening!