Oct 25, 2006 20:19
Ok, so my dr called me yesterday with the details.
Apperently what happened is my uterus, instead of tilting to the back tilts WAY to the front. When he clamped the uterus in place, he thought he was clamping and inserting in the middle of it, but instead was clamping and inserting in the top of it. So, he basically put it through it instead of in it. Now I have a perferated uterus, lammins terms...a hole through it!!
He admitted this was his fault and that he inserted it wrong and that he was VERY sorry.
I looked up online about a "perferated uterus" and apperently that is a heavy duty thing. It can cause bad cramping (wich I've had), excessive bleeding or constant spotting (wich I've had), PID, some type of blood desease, a 55% miscarriage rate apon future pregnancies, infertility (wich Ricky and I weren't 100% sure we didn't want any more) and even DEATH!
So yeah, that is some CRAZY stuff. I looked in the pamplet taht he gave me and it said NOTHING about that, but it does say that it's a possibility on the website(if your courius).
So a malpractice lawsuit is not possible. Wich I'm not even sure I could go through with it anyways. I mean he's a father of 3, one of with is just a couple months older then Kay and has a wife whoes a SAHM. He's prolly not even done paying off his loans from med school. I just can't see suing him over something he didn't intentionaly do andtruely does feel sorry for.
**SIGH** I dunno....
Well I go Sat to preregister at the hospital and then Monday at noon I will be in the O.R. getting this thing removed.
The only option for b.c. now is I get on the pill. THAT STINKS!! I got off the pill to begin with b/c I gained 50lbs in just 3yrs of being on it!! I told Ricky he better not leave me for or cheat on me with a skinner girl or I'm gonna Lorana Bobitt him! LOL!! He says he would never do that. He's in love with my heart and soul not my body. I told him that 's a good thing cause he's gonna have to roll me around soon! LOL!!
I'm tryin to find light in the matter although it is pretty tuff.
It just seems ever since starting church regularly and growing in our faith about 2yrs ago that Satan has been attacking the heck outta us! Our eldest daught Allie has been admitted to the hospital 3-4 times, our son sat on a burn pile that had been smoldering for 2 days and got 2nd degree burns on his leg and 3rd degree burns on the side of his hand, then I have the hardest pregnancy yet, then Kay gets pnemonia and now this!!! There's alot more that was just naming a few.
"YOU'RE NOT GONNA WIN SATAN! YOU SUCK, YOU'RE A LIAR AND UNDER MY FEET!! STAY AWAY FROM ME, MY FAMILY AND OUTTA OUR LIFE!! IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN!!!"