Life Goals, Self Realizations, and Things I Think People Should Know
Life Goals
1) I want to be financial stable on my own, before I decide to get married, and have kids. If things go wrong in the marriage and I have to walk.....I want to know I can take care of myself.
2) I would like to get married(even though I always say I'm never getting married) but if it's not in the cards for me....it's just not. I'm not going to run out and marry anyone just to get married. If I find Mr. Right I do, if not I'm okay with that.
3) I hope to make a significant amount of money when I graduate from college, but I'm NOT going to be someone's Sugar Mama. I've worked too hard to get myself where I am. Like TLC said, "I don't want no scrub." No, I'm not going to be a Gold Digger, but I want someone who is about at financially stable as I am.
Self Realizations
1) I don't need a man to make me happy, although they can be fun to have a good time with.
2) Staying in on Saturday night alone isn't a bad thing, as long as you aren't moping around that you have no one to spend it with. (If this is you, make yourself happy, make some popcorn at watch a movie or read a book. Do something for you.) I just remind myself that men don't know what they are missing out on and I'm choosing to stay in because I'm being choosy.
3) No matter what, there is one episode of Sex and the City that when I watch it....I cry. It's just soo tear jerking. Big leaves for California to own the vineyard, Miranda has her baby, and Samantha spies on Richard with that hideous wig.
Things I Think People Should Know
1) Only you can make yourself happy. Don't count on the people around you to make you happy. However there is a slight exception....When a dumb boy breaks your heart, or your just feeling like crap, your friends can help "cheer" you up but they can't make you happy.
2) Don't go out desperately looking for someone to date. Most likely you will find someone as desperate as you and you deserve better than that. Your a catch remember.
3) Just because someone likes you or has a thing for you doesn't mean you have to return the feelings. If it's not there it's just not....you can't make someone like you. Don't do the pity date thing.
1) I want to be financial stable on my own, before I decide to get married, and have kids. If things go wrong in the marriage and I have to walk.....I want to know I can take care of myself.
2) I would like to get married(even though I always say I'm never getting married) but if it's not in the cards for me....it's just not. I'm not going to run out and marry anyone just to get married. If I find Mr. Right I do, if not I'm okay with that.
3) I hope to make a significant amount of money when I graduate from college, but I'm NOT going to be someone's Sugar Mama. I've worked too hard to get myself where I am. Like TLC said, "I don't want no scrub." No, I'm not going to be a Gold Digger, but I want someone who is about at financially stable as I am.
Self Realizations
1) I don't need a man to make me happy, although they can be fun to have a good time with.
2) Staying in on Saturday night alone isn't a bad thing, as long as you aren't moping around that you have no one to spend it with. (If this is you, make yourself happy, make some popcorn at watch a movie or read a book. Do something for you.) I just remind myself that men don't know what they are missing out on and I'm choosing to stay in because I'm being choosy.
3) No matter what, there is one episode of Sex and the City that when I watch it....I cry. It's just soo tear jerking. Big leaves for California to own the vineyard, Miranda has her baby, and Samantha spies on Richard with that hideous wig.
Things I Think People Should Know
1) Only you can make yourself happy. Don't count on the people around you to make you happy. However there is a slight exception....When a dumb boy breaks your heart, or your just feeling like crap, your friends can help "cheer" you up but they can't make you happy.
2) Don't go out desperately looking for someone to date. Most likely you will find someone as desperate as you and you deserve better than that. Your a catch remember.
3) Just because someone likes you or has a thing for you doesn't mean you have to return the feelings. If it's not there it's just not....you can't make someone like you. Don't do the pity date thing.