Alienation
I alienate people. I've accepted that about myself as a person. My aunt read my archetypes and basically named this aspect of my personality: "The Red Queen." Off with their heads! being my first reaction to anything and everything upsetting. Or weak. Or what appears to be weak. So I alienate. Act all high and mighty, pretend to be confident
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Were you talking about 'judging' in the general sense? Because I don't feel judged by Jen...haha, even when she stopped talking to me. And when you think about it, isn't that the best evidence that she wasn't being judgmental? Because had she continuted let me annoy the shit out of her she would be sitting there judging me...but decided instead to avoid it all together. Fair enough.
And changing things about yourself doesn't tend to be something done in small steps. You get burned, and you stop. Think about your first years working, or in the world of relationships...you screw up and NEVER DO IT AGAIN. But that habit of chewing your nails or sniffing your farts (see! I know Jen real well!!)...those may never change.
I don't really feel that Jen needs to change...but I suppose that one must realise that they are part of an 'interaction'...and their choices have an effect on others, and one just needs to be aware of that. And that is all! Haha, I sound like Tony Robbins..."awareness is the first step to stopping stupid behavior".
So, don't change Jen!! Well, you could start putting a good word in with Lee for me...she's getting that look in her eyes again.
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