A new beginning
I was invited to a private BDSM party on Saturday night by some old friends, ostensibly to mentor a couple who have been 24/7 D\s for just over 12 months but having problems with consistency on His side and obedience on hers. Having spoken to them the problems they were both having were with Vanilla ideals that they did not recognise and therefore could not conquer
The problems are with vanilla ideals and the way we have been brought up to believe that things such as slavery and control over another human being and using another person is wrong. This includes being too polite and in my view overly compassionate about object and things.
These are my views on my lifestyle, I know I will not win friends with this post, but I think it is time I made my views plain.
First of all, lets sort out subs and slaves. A sub offers her submission when she wants to, that maybe in the bedroom, at parties or in the home, but the submission is on her terms. Some
The problems are with vanilla ideals and the way we have been brought up to believe that things such as slavery and control over another human being and using another person is wrong. This includes being too polite and in my view overly compassionate about object and things.
These are my views on my lifestyle, I know I will not win friends with this post, but I think it is time I made my views plain.
First of all, lets sort out subs and slaves. A sub offers her submission when she wants to, that maybe in the bedroom, at parties or in the home, but the submission is on her terms. Some