Why do I have such issues with guys?
So I'm conused... and need some guy advice!!
There's this guy who likes me, who wants to date me, but I just can't figure out how I feel about it. We met eachother at the Lambda/Pi Phi ice cream social (he's a Lambda) like 3 weeks ago. Since then we've gone out on multiple dates, I've hungout at Lambda with him many times, and he listed me for 2 parties. We get along well, and I feel comfortable around him... sometimes I think too comfortable. He's a really cool guy and all, but I'm afraid that my feelings are more that I want a relationship than that I want to be with him. Lambda had a grafitti party a couple of weeks ago and one of my friends wrote "Mikes" across the front of my shirt and it freaked me out. I'm so use to being single and being unattached at parties that it felt weird to be there with someone and have guys look at me like I'm "Mikes girl" so hands off. I didn't really know how to react to that.
The other thing I've noticed is that when there as soon as one guy gets interested in me, guys just start popping out of the wood work. The week after Mike I met was Valentines. The night before Valentines I had no plans or offers (outside of going to Steak 'n' Shake with a bunch of other single Pi Phis) and by 3pm the next day I had 3 offers, and ended up going out with 2 different people that night!
The other issue that is confusing me is that I still like someone else. Someone that I know I shouldn't, because he has no feelings for me, or at least not the right kind of feelings. I'm not going to mention his name, because some of you might know him. But my KKPsi family is convinced that we are perfect for eachother and that he just hasn't realized it yet, but I know it'll never happen. I just can't get over him, as much as I want to and need to.
OY!! I hate guys they just make everything so confusing! I don't know what to think or what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
There's this guy who likes me, who wants to date me, but I just can't figure out how I feel about it. We met eachother at the Lambda/Pi Phi ice cream social (he's a Lambda) like 3 weeks ago. Since then we've gone out on multiple dates, I've hungout at Lambda with him many times, and he listed me for 2 parties. We get along well, and I feel comfortable around him... sometimes I think too comfortable. He's a really cool guy and all, but I'm afraid that my feelings are more that I want a relationship than that I want to be with him. Lambda had a grafitti party a couple of weeks ago and one of my friends wrote "Mikes" across the front of my shirt and it freaked me out. I'm so use to being single and being unattached at parties that it felt weird to be there with someone and have guys look at me like I'm "Mikes girl" so hands off. I didn't really know how to react to that.
The other thing I've noticed is that when there as soon as one guy gets interested in me, guys just start popping out of the wood work. The week after Mike I met was Valentines. The night before Valentines I had no plans or offers (outside of going to Steak 'n' Shake with a bunch of other single Pi Phis) and by 3pm the next day I had 3 offers, and ended up going out with 2 different people that night!
The other issue that is confusing me is that I still like someone else. Someone that I know I shouldn't, because he has no feelings for me, or at least not the right kind of feelings. I'm not going to mention his name, because some of you might know him. But my KKPsi family is convinced that we are perfect for eachother and that he just hasn't realized it yet, but I know it'll never happen. I just can't get over him, as much as I want to and need to.
OY!! I hate guys they just make everything so confusing! I don't know what to think or what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!