serendipiteous
So, I got up today and after breakfast, turned on the computer to check e-mail and there was a notification e-mail that serendipiteous had left a comment on the July 20, 2005 post that I had kept public. Here is her comment:
Funny that I come back and comment on this post... stumbled across .... I now think it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist... we could have some interesting discussions ;)
Talk about a shocker to start off your day! Here was serendipiteous commenting on a post linking to her opinion about me on her LJ, 4 months after I posted it. It was of course interesting to find her comment on my LJ. The last time she commented on my LJ was June 2, 2005 in response to my reply to her comments on my entry of May 16, 2005. It set me thinking about our 'acquaintance' if it might be called so.
The first time I commented on a post by her was around February 19, 2005. After she put up the stuff about me on her LJ, our last "communication" was on August 5, 2005. Given things had gone sour around June 2, I guess our 'acquaintance' can be dated to be from February 19 to June 2, 2005 - about 4 months.
I don't quite really know how to react. She deleted almost every single comment she made on my LJ after our "disagreement". I have never known such hate, especially from a person I haven't known in flesh and blood. After calling me a "male chavinist pig" and a "Stalker!" on July 9, 2005, here she was, on November 24, 2005, saying "it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist... we could have some interesting discussions ;)". Talk about an about-face!!
This is scaring the crap out of me. Out of the blue, this girl comes and comments on my LJ after having professed such hate towards me!! Now, why she did that, I do not know. But I am scared for sure. If by communicating over LJ she could hate me so much, then if by any chance we were to meet in real-life, she would probably eat me alive on the spot!!!
I don't know when she will read this post of mine in reply to her comment, perhaps 4 months from now, or maybe never. And I don't really understand what "interesting discussions" we could have now. She probably has formed an opinion of me - it was a tad too obvious from her comments. All discussions would be tainted by her opinion.
I now think it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist. Note she says "think" - she hasn't added me to her flist. I think I am glad she only "thought" of that. I added her to my flist and got fried - maybe she is afraid of similar treatment from me if she were to put her "thought" into action. Not that I would do it of course, but I think if a person slaps another, he/she is always afraid of being slapped back. Or maybe she is just teasing me or making fun of me. Or, to extend this even more, maybe she is waiting for me to add her to my flist and then she will add me back. But, "once bitten, twice shy".
I have a feeling that serendipiteous will read this post and comment bitterly on it, thrashing me again. But the fact stands that after I extended a hand of friendship, accepting her as she was and in turn, she criticized me bitterly for what I was.
Enough said. Waiting for a reply from serendipiteous.
Funny that I come back and comment on this post... stumbled across .... I now think it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist... we could have some interesting discussions ;)
Talk about a shocker to start off your day! Here was serendipiteous commenting on a post linking to her opinion about me on her LJ, 4 months after I posted it. It was of course interesting to find her comment on my LJ. The last time she commented on my LJ was June 2, 2005 in response to my reply to her comments on my entry of May 16, 2005. It set me thinking about our 'acquaintance' if it might be called so.
The first time I commented on a post by her was around February 19, 2005. After she put up the stuff about me on her LJ, our last "communication" was on August 5, 2005. Given things had gone sour around June 2, I guess our 'acquaintance' can be dated to be from February 19 to June 2, 2005 - about 4 months.
I don't quite really know how to react. She deleted almost every single comment she made on my LJ after our "disagreement". I have never known such hate, especially from a person I haven't known in flesh and blood. After calling me a "male chavinist pig" and a "Stalker!" on July 9, 2005, here she was, on November 24, 2005, saying "it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist... we could have some interesting discussions ;)". Talk about an about-face!!
This is scaring the crap out of me. Out of the blue, this girl comes and comments on my LJ after having professed such hate towards me!! Now, why she did that, I do not know. But I am scared for sure. If by communicating over LJ she could hate me so much, then if by any chance we were to meet in real-life, she would probably eat me alive on the spot!!!
I don't know when she will read this post of mine in reply to her comment, perhaps 4 months from now, or maybe never. And I don't really understand what "interesting discussions" we could have now. She probably has formed an opinion of me - it was a tad too obvious from her comments. All discussions would be tainted by her opinion.
I now think it would actually be funky if I added you to my flist. Note she says "think" - she hasn't added me to her flist. I think I am glad she only "thought" of that. I added her to my flist and got fried - maybe she is afraid of similar treatment from me if she were to put her "thought" into action. Not that I would do it of course, but I think if a person slaps another, he/she is always afraid of being slapped back. Or maybe she is just teasing me or making fun of me. Or, to extend this even more, maybe she is waiting for me to add her to my flist and then she will add me back. But, "once bitten, twice shy".
I have a feeling that serendipiteous will read this post and comment bitterly on it, thrashing me again. But the fact stands that after I extended a hand of friendship, accepting her as she was and in turn, she criticized me bitterly for what I was.
Enough said. Waiting for a reply from serendipiteous.