HOLY EFFING CRAP!!! OH MI GOD!!! THIS IS IN FACT AN OMIGOD MOMENT. ... I felt like posting the same thing....nearly every word was true. this happened yesterday with someone special to me too. ...wow. I dont think I could get any closer to you in this boat. I know...exactly how you feel. the whole wanting-to-go-somewhere-afterwards-with-your-friends-and-have-fun-after-I-leave thing...yeah. that's kinda how it happened. and I have to say, I'm super-pissed too. we've had bigger fights but that one almost hit the nail on the head. it was right up there with the most riduculous things to fight about. i'm not saying you two fought...just what happened (that triggered it)
but you know what. ....after all the stupid things that have happened, somehow the space you take and then seeing them again...the anger disappears. and the fight doesn't matter. and if you still love eachother...it passes, like lacy said. this is unless you really think that holding a grudge will work. and they're not worth anything either.
always, Nermal. (you dont have to sign back, ...I read old e-mails yesterday) *hug*
If this was in person and not over a website, I would give you the biggest hug right now. You know the feeling, I know the feeling, and hugs make everyone feel better. ^_^
Anyway. You are so right; I had a bit of time apart, a lot of time to think and mull things over. Then we talked and everything's cool again. The anger isn't completely gone yet, no, that takes a while, but on the other hand I know that it will go away and it's not worth holding a grudge over.
Right up there with the most ridiculous things to fight about.
Thanks Nermal, this one really spoke to me. ^_^
always and a day (two days if it's a leap year), Pooky
glad things are better. (in familiar irony) he called my phone a bit ago. and it's kinda like it never happened. I feel like I made him really upset with my selfish jealousy. but I'm glad to hear he's better. I'm happier to hear that you're good too.
and yeah, the anger...I dunno if it ever completely goes away. it takes something really great to make you totally forgive it. and you never know when or what it will be. *sigh*
I felt like posting the same thing....nearly every word was true. this happened yesterday with someone special to me too. ...wow. I dont think I could get any closer to you in this boat. I know...exactly how you feel. the whole wanting-to-go-somewhere-afterwards-with-your-friends-and-have-fun-after-I-leave thing...yeah. that's kinda how it happened.
and I have to say, I'm super-pissed too. we've had bigger fights but that one almost hit the nail on the head. it was right up there with the most riduculous things to fight about. i'm not saying you two fought...just what happened (that triggered it)
but you know what. ....after all the stupid things that have happened, somehow the space you take and then seeing them again...the anger disappears. and the fight doesn't matter. and if you still love eachother...it passes, like lacy said.
this is unless you really think that holding a grudge will work. and they're not worth anything either.
always, Nermal. (you dont have to sign back, ...I read old e-mails yesterday) *hug*
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You know the feeling, I know the feeling, and hugs make everyone feel better. ^_^
Anyway. You are so right; I had a bit of time apart, a lot of time to think and mull things over.
Then we talked and everything's cool again. The anger isn't completely gone yet, no, that takes a while, but on the other hand I know that it will go away and it's not worth holding a grudge over.
Right up there with the most ridiculous things to fight about.
Thanks Nermal, this one really spoke to me. ^_^
always and a day (two days if it's a leap year), Pooky
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glad things are better. (in familiar irony) he called my phone a bit ago. and it's kinda like it never happened. I feel like I made him really upset with my selfish jealousy. but I'm glad to hear he's better. I'm happier to hear that you're good too.
and yeah, the anger...I dunno if it ever completely goes away. it takes something really great to make you totally forgive it. and you never know when or what it will be. *sigh*
can't think of anymore useful input...right now.
Nermal (do we leap on leap years??)
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Pooky (let's leap anyway. like leprechauns!)
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