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I think im going to ask ryan to sign his rights that way he cant come around in 5 years wanting to be a dad messing gages head up bc he realized his mistake.. It may seem selfish.. but if the whole story of what ryan has done was out.. youd understand.. i was just wondering if anyone had any info on this? anything would help. thanks <3

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[x_paranoia_x]

hi i know you dont know me but i figured id put my 2 cents in just because of the situation i am in now my daughter is 2 years old and for two years her dad was the best father a daughter could ask for we have not been together since she was 6mo but he seen her 2x a week and every other weekend and he called her at least once aday up untill may of this year he got a new girlfriend that is 17 and cant stomach the fact that he is 24 WITH A DAUGHTER she wants no part of my daughter so Tommy quit seeing and calling her now he sees her for about an hour everyother weekend and it has messed her poor little head up soo bad she has to go to counseling because she bites her fingers and crys wanting to know why her daddy dont like her and things like that soo id really present it to the court that you think in the best intrest of your child it would be best to not have him around at all i am taking this to court right now and things are looking really good for me they are giving tommy a few weeks to straightin up but if he fails to pick her up this time he is not allowed to even call her anymore

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good luck with everything!

[____restless]

I'm relaly sorry your going through this.. ryan got a new girlfriend while i was pregnant.. and thats when he decided he didnt want a baby... bc she doesnt want one... and thats fine.. because SHE WOULDNT HAVE HAD ONE... im gage's mother and even if ryan were in his life... she would not be his mother... so why her opinion matters i dont know.. but it made him not want gage... and shit that works for me too... id rather not have to deal with him for the rest of my life. i wouldnt even take his rights away and have to see him if i didnt have a fear that he would com ein and out of gages life later on lik emy dad did.. and caused me lots of problems... i will not have him making gage feel less than nothing.. so id rather take his rights away now.. than kill him later on. i hope things work out for you and your daughter... and for a 24 year old to listen to a 17 year old... is pathetic. when i look at my son (and im sure its the same with your daughter) i cant understand how anyone would want to be denied to even just hold his little hand.. but i know that if ryan thinks he better than to see gage now... he doesnt deserve to see him later.

[x_paranoia_x]

that is very true and well said these girls should have no say in OUR CHILDRENS LIVES we made these children and we take care of them every day and i think we both have the right to kick these men out of there lifes if there not going to play the part as good as we do and then they turn around and say its a damn money issue that makes me soo mad these men need to realize the only issue is these poor innocent children are getting pushed away bec. of a "new girlfriend" i cant understand how men can deny there children soo much i could never i just dont understand it but i hope things work out for ya and gage always remeber were all they need =) i hope ya dont mind i added ya

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adding u back