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[stephwest]

Ok, I just feel like a horrible person in general

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You are correct

[isaypardonme]

I am not a part of this group but I feel for you so much, and I wanted to confirm what was just said. I am a graduate student studying the effects of certain drugs and alcohol on the fetus, so hopefully I can be insightful. Obviously, it is safer to not drink while you are pregnant, the same with smoking or anything. But as with caffeine, exercise, and a lot of other things, if it is only done on occasion, and in moderation this will NOT cause any permanent problems. A couple of cigarettes, or a glass of red wine will not have enough of an impact to lead to any of the brain problems associated with binge drinking, and smoking. Also, like rabidslipsnap said these things are FAR more harmful at the beginning of your pregnancy. At 31 weeks your baby is certainly devloped enough to handle these things in small amounts. This is not to say I am advocating any of these things, and it is great that you are worrying about what is best (a lot of people in your situation give up). I cannot imagine what you are going through but I want you to know I am praying for you and I wish you and your baby the best. It is really smart that you are going to talk to you doctor. Good job seeking help, and caring for your baby!