Hi sweetie! I'm glad you said something. I remove people after so long if they hardly ever comment on my entries, or if they hardly ever respond to my comments on their entries. If anyone knows how REAL LIFE can get in the way of LJ, it's me. So I really do understand when people can't be there all the time. I'm the kind of person who really needs the individual interaction with those on my friends list. I want to feel like the people I have reading my JOURNAL, the private parts of my personal life, are people whom I can trust, respect, get along with, have things in common with. I want the people on my list to be people who look forward to reading about my life, and commenting on it... being a PART of it. And I, theirs as well. Does that make sense? It's my personal life. I want to be really great friends with those who have the priveledge of reading about it. And interacting with each other, is an important part of that. Even though, as I said, I know it's not always possible to put much time into LJ.I DO understand that all too well. So anyway. I really enjoyed having you around, in all honesty! I suppose I just thought you had lost interest. I figure, if I take someone off my list who really did want to be there, they'll say something to me. Otherise, those who don't say anything, apparently didn't really want to be there, and I was right in taking them off *shrugs*
Hahaha. This was the LOOOOOONG version of telling you I'd like to re add you, if you're still interested. I appologize for the removal, and I really am so grateful and appreciative that you took the time to pull me aside and ask about it. Thank You! :) Alright, you've been added back. Welcome back to my crazy world! :P
Oh good! I'm so glad! And I'm sorry about not commenting lately. I appreciate when people comment on mine too - sometimes I just get really bad about it. It's not rudeness, just laziness. Not to mention, you tend to be a bit of a novel writer (don't worry, there's nothing wrong with that! hehe) so I scan over your entry in a hurry and make a mental note to go back and read later. But unfortunately, things have a habit of falling out of brains, and later never comes. I didn't mean anything by it and I AM trying to get better about it. I'm glad we were able to iron things out. Of course I'm still interested in being added. =)
Hahaha, yeah, I do write a lot! Hey, don't worry about not being able to comment all the time. Now that I know you're interested and do read and comment when you can, I'm totally cool with that! Even I got thru stages where I don't comment harldy ever... and sometimes, when I don't read for a long time too! I'd much rather you just skip commenting on an entry you couldn't get to, or whatever, rather than making some lame ass comment like "*hugs*" or "I'm so sorry" or "you're in my thoughts"... and that's it. I feel like that shows lack of interest... and those people might as well just move along. :) Anyway, I'm glad to have you back! Please PLEASE don't let yourself get all worried and stressed about reading my stuff and commenting! Like I said, now I know you're interested in my craziness of a life, you're all good! *squeezies* OH, and you've been added back! :)
I'm glad you said something. I remove people after so long if they hardly ever comment on my entries, or if they hardly ever respond to my comments on their entries. If anyone knows how REAL LIFE can get in the way of LJ, it's me. So I really do understand when people can't be there all the time.
I'm the kind of person who really needs the individual interaction with those on my friends list. I want to feel like the people I have reading my JOURNAL, the private parts of my personal life, are people whom I can trust, respect, get along with, have things in common with. I want the people on my list to be people who look forward to reading about my life, and commenting on it... being a PART of it. And I, theirs as well.
Does that make sense? It's my personal life. I want to be really great friends with those who have the priveledge of reading about it. And interacting with each other, is an important part of that. Even though, as I said, I know it's not always possible to put much time into LJ.I DO understand that all too well.
So anyway.
I really enjoyed having you around, in all honesty! I suppose I just thought you had lost interest. I figure, if I take someone off my list who really did want to be there, they'll say something to me. Otherise, those who don't say anything, apparently didn't really want to be there, and I was right in taking them off *shrugs*
Hahaha. This was the LOOOOOONG version of telling you I'd like to re add you, if you're still interested. I appologize for the removal, and I really am so grateful and appreciative that you took the time to pull me aside and ask about it. Thank You! :)
Alright, you've been added back. Welcome back to my crazy world! :P
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And I'm sorry about not commenting lately. I appreciate when people comment on mine too - sometimes I just get really bad about it. It's not rudeness, just laziness. Not to mention, you tend to be a bit of a novel writer (don't worry, there's nothing wrong with that! hehe) so I scan over your entry in a hurry and make a mental note to go back and read later. But unfortunately, things have a habit of falling out of brains, and later never comes.
I didn't mean anything by it and I AM trying to get better about it. I'm glad we were able to iron things out. Of course I'm still interested in being added. =)
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Anyway, I'm glad to have you back! Please PLEASE don't let yourself get all worried and stressed about reading my stuff and commenting! Like I said, now I know you're interested in my craziness of a life, you're all good! *squeezies*
OH, and you've been added back! :)
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