I hate drama
I need to let out, I'm so pissed at the moment. I was told by Abi, who I thought was a good friend of mine, we can't be friends anymore, and I'm almost glad for it to happen. I'm sick of it, all the fucking bullshit. All the drama, I never want any part in it, but somehow, I get mixed up in it and mostly its Abi mixing me up in it like it is my fault. Here's the story
I was working on a Sunday when my friend Michelle and her friend and Seth's girlfriend Kristen came into Bi-Lo to shop. When Michelle walked off to talk to someone, Kristen pulled me aside and told me that Seth and her wanted to put on a surprise birthday party for Michelle. They needed a place to do it, I had the apartment with more freedom, Seth and Kristen still live with parents. So I said fine, I'll provide the location, Michelle is a good person who deserves a good birthday. I was going to leave the inviting to Seth and Kristen, they would know better than I would who Michelle would and wouldn't like there. Well one name in the wouldn't catagory was Abi. She carries around and induces drama wherever she goes, and it gets on Michelle's nerves. Michelle uped and left my apartment one night when we were all hanging out because of Nathan and Abi bickering back and forth. And the general consensus is, and most of that was from Cynthia, that Abi shouldn't be invited.
Like I said before, I was just providing the location, I didn't mind if Abi was there or not, I was fine with it, but others didn't, so she wasn't told. Its not like I'd seen her in the last couple of weeks anyway to even keep it a secret, I never lied because I hadn't even talked to her. Well, I called Russell about the party and reminded him, and he asked if Abi was going. Cynthia was there and overheard me repeating Russel's question and she's shaking her head saying "no, Abi is not to come at all" Cynthia didn't want her there, Michelle wasn't too fond of her, especially after a recent incident when Abi was very insulting to her, Seth didn't want her there, and who knows who else. Well Russell thought it was screwed up by beating around the bush and keeping the party a secret from Abi, which I told Russell I agree but it was out of my hands and he agreed with me that it was.
Then came the night of the party, I was at work and Abi came in, first time I'd seen her in weeks, and basically was verbally ripping into me for keeping this a secret, telling me that she learned from Russell that I didn't want her there, she ranted off, and I kept saying, it wasn't my call, cause truthfully it wasn't. And this isn't the first time that something that wasn't really my deal had caused a heated argument between Abi and I. And then today came, I was at work today and Abi called and left a message. I listened and it basically was her saying how we can't be friends anymore cause I was talking behind her back to multiple people. Whatever, this is the second time she's accused me of it, and she has no one to back it up, not even names. I left her a message back basically saying I was sick of this shit, I don't care who said it, I wasn't saying anything behind her back, and flat out, I didn't want to be friends with her anymore, that's it, we're done, goodbye.
I really am, this is petty childish shit, I am so fucking sick of it. I've been around too long and see too much to have the patience to deal with this. I'm partially mad at Russell, cause somehow through him Abi thinks this is my fault. In a way, I'm mad at Cynthia and Andy, all the stuff they say behind her back(and they are her roomates) and she's sitting down and working things out with them? The stuff Andy will call her at times is horrible. Its nothing, always has been and always will be. And now, she's nothing to me, I eliminated a root to one of the problems. I may still have 99 problems but that bitch ain't one.
I was working on a Sunday when my friend Michelle and her friend and Seth's girlfriend Kristen came into Bi-Lo to shop. When Michelle walked off to talk to someone, Kristen pulled me aside and told me that Seth and her wanted to put on a surprise birthday party for Michelle. They needed a place to do it, I had the apartment with more freedom, Seth and Kristen still live with parents. So I said fine, I'll provide the location, Michelle is a good person who deserves a good birthday. I was going to leave the inviting to Seth and Kristen, they would know better than I would who Michelle would and wouldn't like there. Well one name in the wouldn't catagory was Abi. She carries around and induces drama wherever she goes, and it gets on Michelle's nerves. Michelle uped and left my apartment one night when we were all hanging out because of Nathan and Abi bickering back and forth. And the general consensus is, and most of that was from Cynthia, that Abi shouldn't be invited.
Like I said before, I was just providing the location, I didn't mind if Abi was there or not, I was fine with it, but others didn't, so she wasn't told. Its not like I'd seen her in the last couple of weeks anyway to even keep it a secret, I never lied because I hadn't even talked to her. Well, I called Russell about the party and reminded him, and he asked if Abi was going. Cynthia was there and overheard me repeating Russel's question and she's shaking her head saying "no, Abi is not to come at all" Cynthia didn't want her there, Michelle wasn't too fond of her, especially after a recent incident when Abi was very insulting to her, Seth didn't want her there, and who knows who else. Well Russell thought it was screwed up by beating around the bush and keeping the party a secret from Abi, which I told Russell I agree but it was out of my hands and he agreed with me that it was.
Then came the night of the party, I was at work and Abi came in, first time I'd seen her in weeks, and basically was verbally ripping into me for keeping this a secret, telling me that she learned from Russell that I didn't want her there, she ranted off, and I kept saying, it wasn't my call, cause truthfully it wasn't. And this isn't the first time that something that wasn't really my deal had caused a heated argument between Abi and I. And then today came, I was at work today and Abi called and left a message. I listened and it basically was her saying how we can't be friends anymore cause I was talking behind her back to multiple people. Whatever, this is the second time she's accused me of it, and she has no one to back it up, not even names. I left her a message back basically saying I was sick of this shit, I don't care who said it, I wasn't saying anything behind her back, and flat out, I didn't want to be friends with her anymore, that's it, we're done, goodbye.
I really am, this is petty childish shit, I am so fucking sick of it. I've been around too long and see too much to have the patience to deal with this. I'm partially mad at Russell, cause somehow through him Abi thinks this is my fault. In a way, I'm mad at Cynthia and Andy, all the stuff they say behind her back(and they are her roomates) and she's sitting down and working things out with them? The stuff Andy will call her at times is horrible. Its nothing, always has been and always will be. And now, she's nothing to me, I eliminated a root to one of the problems. I may still have 99 problems but that bitch ain't one.