Feb 28, 2007 21:00
Okay. So I'm definitely dumping Marc. The problem is, we all know I'm kind of obnoxious, and I will probably blurt out something really mean. So I need some advice. I figured I'd say something like:
You're really sweet, don't get me wrong, it is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I just think that we're really different and even though you're a good guy and a good person I don't think this is working out as a romance thing. I really think that we could be good friends but the relationship is becoming a little strained and I wanna give both of us some air so we don't get really frustrated with each other and end our friendship along with our dating.
Is that okay? Is there anything in that which would sound mean? Or that could come across the wrong way? I'm so bad at this, especially because I'm not mad at him and I don't dislike him... I'm just not attracted to him and I don't want to be dating him. (Although I certainly can't tell it to him like that. Ugh, can you imagine? You're great but the thought of kissing you and your overactive tongue makes me gag a little and I don't really have any romantic feelings for you at all anymore. Sorry can we be friends?)
I have like a week to figure out what I'm gonna say. Ugh.