*HUGS* Sordak showing jealousy? Wow. *HUGS* Sometimes, I think that being friends with someone who became your friend because of something like SL can be more stressful than a lot of people realize. Sometimes, it is best to just kind of lay low and cool things down. It doesn't change the fact that it hurts, but it could become even more hurtful later on if things didn't cool for a bit. I don't know if I am making sense. I've had to take my meds and I'm a bit fuzzy. I have a couple of friends in RL that I became friends with under some...odd circumstances. T and I were mortal enemies, at least until one night where he was going to break 20 years of sobriety over catching his wife with another man and I refused to let him. Our friendship now is tied up in all of that and there is no untangling the "naughty" from it so I've kept my distance in order to keep it from putting us back to "mortal enemy" status. Why? Because, everyone needs a friend who understands them and gets why they do the silly things they do. T.V. and I have been friends for over 20 years. Each of us kept the physical side out of it for about 10, then, it was a natural progression. Trouble is, we fell in love and each of us recognized it would never, ever work out. We're still friends, but there's a distance between us that we both mutually agreed on. He can tease me and I feel no discomfort where as with T, there is discomfort. Marty, well, Marty is in a unique class all by himself. Of all the people I ever danced for, he was the only one who actually cared about what was in my head and my heart. He's one of those friends that I could probably see after a few years and we'd just pick up where we left off. Wes was a friend and then sex got in the way. Even after we weren't. Because some guys, once they've gone there with a gal, well, that gall is "theirs" for the rest of her life, even if he's no longer with her. It really does ruin things. My point is, different people react differently to everything. It's hard to be someone who can love multiple people at once and be in a world where that is not normal. SOmetimes, I think that you and I were born out of synch with time and that once upon a time we were probably sister wives to some guy we had to smack upside the head with a broad sword on a regular basis. Meantime, I love you very very much and I miss you terribly. I wish I were there to hug you and make you tea and show you the sketch of the idea for Bit's afghan. And make yummy stuff in the kitchen with again. Since I am not, *HUGS*. Love you; ME
Sordak showing jealousy? Wow.
*HUGS*
Sometimes, I think that being friends with someone who became your friend because of something like SL can be more stressful than a lot of people realize. Sometimes, it is best to just kind of lay low and cool things down. It doesn't change the fact that it hurts, but it could become even more hurtful later on if things didn't cool for a bit.
I don't know if I am making sense. I've had to take my meds and I'm a bit fuzzy.
I have a couple of friends in RL that I became friends with under some...odd circumstances. T and I were mortal enemies, at least until one night where he was going to break 20 years of sobriety over catching his wife with another man and I refused to let him. Our friendship now is tied up in all of that and there is no untangling the "naughty" from it so I've kept my distance in order to keep it from putting us back to "mortal enemy" status. Why? Because, everyone needs a friend who understands them and gets why they do the silly things they do.
T.V. and I have been friends for over 20 years. Each of us kept the physical side out of it for about 10, then, it was a natural progression. Trouble is, we fell in love and each of us recognized it would never, ever work out. We're still friends, but there's a distance between us that we both mutually agreed on. He can tease me and I feel no discomfort where as with T, there is discomfort.
Marty, well, Marty is in a unique class all by himself. Of all the people I ever danced for, he was the only one who actually cared about what was in my head and my heart. He's one of those friends that I could probably see after a few years and we'd just pick up where we left off.
Wes was a friend and then sex got in the way. Even after we weren't. Because some guys, once they've gone there with a gal, well, that gall is "theirs" for the rest of her life, even if he's no longer with her. It really does ruin things.
My point is, different people react differently to everything. It's hard to be someone who can love multiple people at once and be in a world where that is not normal. SOmetimes, I think that you and I were born out of synch with time and that once upon a time we were probably sister wives to some guy we had to smack upside the head with a broad sword on a regular basis.
Meantime, I love you very very much and I miss you terribly. I wish I were there to hug you and make you tea and show you the sketch of the idea for Bit's afghan. And make yummy stuff in the kitchen with again.
Since I am not, *HUGS*.
Love you;
ME
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