Dec 21, 2004 15:28
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
I will give him that much credit... He has been trying...
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
so whats going on with Alex?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
Whats wrong?
Tara Lee.. says:
yeah sure maryu ellen......
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
tell me... It is just you and me talking now.. he got upset and left..
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
whats going on
Tara Lee.. says:
he is a udseless asshole...I am cuttibng all ties
Tara Lee.. says:
tell him to go for custidy if he wants to see them
Tara Lee.. says:
I am sick of watching pike raise and support themn wirthout a bit of help
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
But he has visitation rights through the courts right now... Yes I agree that Pike is the stand in father, but he made that choice when he got involved with you.. He knew the situation... Just like I knew the situation...
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
there is nothing we can do about it... Hadley is trying his best and his best is just not good enough... He really is trying Tara
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
you know I wont lie for him
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
so whats going on with alex?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
whats happening with the kids?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
what has got u so ticked off today?? what happend?? talk to me... we have always been able to talk... whats going on
Tara Lee.. says:
as for his vistation? maryellen that is a joke
Tara Lee.. says:
I tryed to give him certain days and he said no and gave me all the control
Tara Lee.. says:
it is when and if I say
Tara Lee.. says:
and I will tell you the same as I have told everyone esle I asked about it
Tara Lee.. says:
I dont tyhink it will happen
Tara Lee.. says:
You ask what got me so upset?
Tara Lee.. says:
how about the fact that I make sure that those kids ahve all that they need and had does what when he gets a few bucks?
Tara Lee.. says:
he gets his drugs,.,.,,,he gets what he wants and needs and forgets that he has kids...IO
Tara Lee.. says:
I am not playing these games anymore and from now on fuck him
Tara Lee.. says:
I am not worrying about none of it this year coming
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
I understnad that you are stresed out, trust me we all are at this point, however you do not get the final say as to cutting the ties with hadley and his kids... That is up to the kids when they are old enough to understand the situation...As far as games... Tara, you have never gotten one cent from him in years, all of a sudden it is all about money... you cannot hold those kids back from him
Tara Lee.. says:
try me
Tara Lee.. says:
go ahead
Tara Lee.. says:
I am dead serouis
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
just because your mad that your not getting welfare anymore... I understand things are tight right now.. However, you are the one that took those kids away from him in the first place, We have always made the effort to do something for them or take them whenever posible...
Tara Lee.. says:
I called a few people and they sugest the same thing...If I wanna keep contact to give him a call once a week...
Tara Lee.. says:
my nu,mber is being changed
Tara Lee.. says:
mom said that they can call from her house
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
Look at when we were living in C.B. We took them all the time... even when I was 9+ months pregnant... We have always been broke, but we try to provide what we can... we cannot do as much as you do, but that is because we dont get the amount of money you do in a month.... You get money to support them, you dont have to work to get that money... Hadley and I have to work... We make a lot less t
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
yeah YOU did mary ellne
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
this is not about you
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
its him
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
think about it what the hell does he do for these kids?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
than you do in a month, so yes we cannot do as much for them as u do... I understand that... however you have to understnad that he is only working a minuim wage job... he makes like 800 a month thats it...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
you fucking bithc
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I get a 700 check to raise 3 kids
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
you ignoran6t bitch
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
you are as bad as him
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
We do what we can, we buy birthdays, xmas, and send things down wnenever we can afford it tara..
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
nm any of it
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
take the money and shove it
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
it is about so much more then money
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but hey you keep the loser upo there
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
and away from me and my kids
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
well I will tell you right now that if you really want to try to take his rights away from him tara, it is going to be a huge court case, it is going to drag the kids through hell... do u really want that??? We should be able to sit down and come to an agreement on all this stuff... this is silly... we dont need to be fighting over this stuff...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I have tryed to come to a agreement
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
What is important is the kids... you and hadley both have to put all the anger and hurt in the past and leave it there... it is hirting the kids... none of us want that... I am sure of it...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
its a dead end with him
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
no mary ellen...its time that he understands that as far as he is concerned
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
I understand that you have tried to come to an agreement with him, however you seem to want a lot more tan he is able to give...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
he does not see why he should help the kids
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
fuck you even said that he would buy drugs over a bag of diapers
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
he cannot afford to send money every week... he cannot afford to come home to visit all the time...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but you forget that now right?>
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
her has not sent 1 fucking cent
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
oh I am glad he is not here
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
No I agreee... He does spend money on things that are not necessary, however, he is doing what he can.. he is really trying to change
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I think I am at a point that I would kill him
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
bullshit
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
maybe it is cause I was in it for 7 years
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but he will never change no matter what you think
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
As far as not spending a cent on those kids tara you know that is not true...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
not for shit they need
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
since we have been down here we have sent toys, and clothes, and christmas and he is coming to visit the forst of the month...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
they need diapers
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
has he sent enmalee a cent for them?
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
is it him that has to worry cause I have to put her to bed with none on?
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
nope
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
what have you sent
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
lets see.../.
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
sneakers and hats adn mitts....which I appreictaed,,,,,but besides that wghat?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
what about all the clothes and shoes tha we gave you?? we are doing what we can financially afford... We do not get any money to help support those kids... we take it out of our money that needs to pay our bills
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
a birthday present for alex that you guys said goit lost in the mail....and what?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
We gave you like 3 garbage bags of clothes before we left and each of them got new shoes
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
what aboiut the money he finds for his drugs?
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
he always finds that
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
we gave them lots of toys, and attention...
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
no you did
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
this is not about you
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
you can see them when ever you want and I will not take that from you
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but as far as he goes
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
its done
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
and you mean to tell me that you never spend any money on yourself... IE getting a puff... tobacco... coffee... anything?
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I dont puff anymore,.,,,,
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
He is entitled to a few dollars out of his pay check
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but I go without to make sure my bnabys have what they need
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I wish I could say the same for him
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
I went a week with no fucking smokes so that they had food in there bellys?
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
would he?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
Tara men are diferent than women, uand I know taht... He is doing what he can.. it just does nto seem to be enough
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
nope he would tell me so sad, to bad!
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
yeah well maybe I am the bitch that wants to much....
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but I promiose you In the new year...MY kids will get all that they deserve
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
and I dont care who I take from anymore
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
that is not true...when we had the kids during the summer we went without so that those kids had things, we borrowed money from joann, my mom ... we even got u to help us once and we appreciatee that tara...
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
Hadley has even sold all his fishing gear this month so that he can afford to get them gifts for xmas
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
so he is not as selfish as u think he is
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
he cannot call the kids every night cause he usually works till 6 or later... by the time he gets home they are already in bed... what is he supposed to do?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
he cannot call from work
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
he doesnt have a cell phone
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
what more can he do?
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
he is tryin tara
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
its all fucking excuses maryellen...I am done haviong this chat....I am leaving gotta start supper at my house
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
it is not enough though no mater
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
but yeah the first week in jan there are gonna be big changes and I just hope that he knows I am deadley serouis
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
ok but know if u bring this to court u will have those kids hating u
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
dont bet on it
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
and dont threaten me
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
i understand you are entitle to some money and help but we cannot do as much as u want us to we cannot afford it
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
i am not threatning u i am just tellin you how it is going to end.. i have been there...
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
trust me they will hate u becase it is u that is now keeping them and him apart not him... i went through it with my dad
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
have you listen to travis cry cause his father dont bother iwth him half the time adn the only one tyhat calls is his step mom?>
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
no...so untill them dont bother giveing me the bull shit
Tara Lee..I have become super bitch! says:
yeah your right...its gonna be me that is keeping him from them now....and I will tell them that
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
fine tara... do what u need to do.. I understand u are upset but keedp in mind that were doing our best but it is just not enough for u
This is the shittiest Christmas ever! says:
and they will hate u later for it when they understand what happend... trust me I did