Complicated
I spent what felt like hours (I think it was actually only 40-45 minutes) tonight, listening to someone tell me about myself- how amazingly complicated I am and that I've been "scorned" and now put up barriers and push anyone (any guy, specifically) away, should he get anywhere near breaking said barriers. I will admit, this guy is right, but damn, why do I have to sit there and listen to him tell me that? Well, then he asked me to choose one person to spend the rest of my life with, one person who could fulfill all my needs (emotionally, etc), and I said I couldn't because there isn't just one person or type of relationship that can fill all my needs, nor will I be able to fill someone else's needs entirely and he said that he believes there is a girl out there for him that CAN do that, to whom he can reciprocate. I had nothing else to say to him, because I was so sick of arguing in circles that I said, "sorry that I disappointed you" and left.
I almost called him to give him MY analysis of him and a few other choice words of what I think of him and his need to feel smarter and more superior to others by telling them who they are, but then I thought that maybe I shouldn't give him the satisfaction of knowing he got to me. Obviously, he already knows that, and I'm not even sure why he got under my skin so much. In any case, I decided not to call him. I'll probably never see him again anyway, if the past has taught me anything.
Do you all think people are complicated by nature? Or do we create complications in ourselves to add drama to what seems like a boring life?
I almost called him to give him MY analysis of him and a few other choice words of what I think of him and his need to feel smarter and more superior to others by telling them who they are, but then I thought that maybe I shouldn't give him the satisfaction of knowing he got to me. Obviously, he already knows that, and I'm not even sure why he got under my skin so much. In any case, I decided not to call him. I'll probably never see him again anyway, if the past has taught me anything.
Do you all think people are complicated by nature? Or do we create complications in ourselves to add drama to what seems like a boring life?