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Aug 04, 2009 15:43

Marc is far away. This creates a multitude of problems for me ( Read more... )

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anonymous August 5 2009, 07:11:28 UTC
furthermore, instead of a "a harem of guys" why not concentrate on your own self as a human person, regardless of reference to males etc., perhaps just the idea of being a complete person without need for validation and sexual approval of other would be "reasonable," I surely think so.

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tapedecklace August 5 2009, 13:50:59 UTC
yes, well that's kind of a running joke, but yes i agree. it'll be a full semester coming up too, one that i would do well to concentrate on more so than i have in the past since if i fail a class this semester, i stay for another. dire consequences.

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anonymous August 5 2009, 15:56:22 UTC
well if you agree then forget about this kind of stuff for awhile and work on getting out of the piscean swamp and into real and powerful passions of your very own. make something for yourself for a change. imagining you standing tall in a creative life without some man in the social-networking-site-photo-foreground is very beautiful to me.

Tact doesn't permit me to say more in this forum. Sorry for commenting on your life uninvited, i don't really know a damn thing about it.

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tapedecklace August 5 2009, 23:34:05 UTC
but you know me pretty well, and so i value any bit of advice you may have to offer. thanks.

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anonymous August 6 2009, 07:58:57 UTC
last thing i'll say;
its not "advice," its call of desire

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tapedecklace August 5 2009, 13:52:51 UTC
so, i see your mind is made up. but there are a bazillion ways to go about this, also. any advice on that? and try to remember i would rather not be as blunt as you usually are about most things.

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anonymous August 5 2009, 15:30:38 UTC
there's only two choices, either stay with him or don't, and there's only one way to go about it, with honesty and kindness. You don't have to be as "blunt" as I am after I've had a few to be HONEST. with yourself, too. but maybe it would help. What do you have to lose?

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tapedecklace August 5 2009, 23:39:11 UTC
don't kid yourself. you're blunt when your sober. and i am a people pleaser and thus never quite honest enough.

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