problem solved, i suppose, though
there are still some hurt feelings.
what was meant as intelligent conversation
came off otherwise
and what was meant as an encouraging
comment came off
radical and disgusting.
so both sides are wrong and right.
both need to find balance between
a) "100 dollar" interesting diction and actual communication
and
b) taking advantage of the internets
million ways to say the same thing and
being tactful and understood
and yes, i'm protective.
the best way to approach any situation
is from as many sides as possible
and so that's what my detective-self set out to do.
it's for the things that are so close to home that
i have to keep a vigilant watch about
and cannot call to ask about.
so that's what i am watching for.
i don't think that anything is awry
in that sphere of my life but again,
being so involved leads me to
second-guess myself.
talking to people
who are obviously bias (for OR against)
won't help me either.
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