Tanya, I didn't mean to be quite so hurtful, but I was being truthful.. although the WAY I said it may have been a little immature. I apologize for my wording. The reason the house was suddenly spotless, was because I was actually home for a weekend, Kyle and I broke up, and I take out my anger, frustration, and general other psychological problems, by cleaning. It's what I do. At least it's productive I suppose... Anyway, Eric never had to clean up after me, and if he bitched about me... well, that's his deal. I never had a personal problem with him. As for the pot, I don't think you're going to find ANYONE that hasn't at least experimented. That doesn't make it ok to do on a regular basis, not even I think that... but don't rule out a person entirely just because they smoke once in a while. I'd be much less frightened of a baked person than a drunk person, truthfully. I'm not mad at you because you don't like that we smoke, I don't even really care. It isn't the issue, at least on my end. I'm mad because this is that straw, Tanya. You haven't said a single nice thing to me that I can remember since I've met you. It's just the sort of person you are. I can't deal with your personality, and that's partlky my problem. I'm a super sensitive person, but you don't really know that about me. You don't really know anything about me. You don't go out of your way for anyone, and it's kind of sad, really. I live to make others happy, and not to offend, but I see you living only to make yourself happy. That doesn't make you a bad person, or me a better person at all, it's just that we see things on a different level. I hope you find somewhere that makes you happier than here.
If you're actually looking for a place, make sure you let Caity and I know for sure, so that we can start advertising in the music and maybe art buildings, thanks...
Maybe we'll all get along better once we don't live together anymore.
Regarding the dishes, it does smell bad, but I suppose I might as well wash them. It isn't just one dish, it's the entire sink, and Caity and I washed every single dish (with the exception of my coffee thermos) before we left, and there was an entire sink full when we came back, as well as about 10-15 empty and half empty beer cans and coronas when we came back. The house was basically trashed, and I spent a couple hours cleaning it. If they are Eric's instead of yours, I'll just clean them. He doesn't need to be here just to clean dishes, that'd probably just make us uncomfortable, being as now we know for sure that he hates both of us. (ok, NOW I have a problem with him. Oh well, your choice dear.)
Anyway, this is getting SUPER long. I apologize. You have valid points just the same as we do, and everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I respect your decisions, as you should ours. Hope you week goes a bit better, Tanya. that's all.
Yes I fully intend to move out. I used to live like you, trying only to please other people, but then I realized I was never happy, and I changed the way I do things. I don't go out of my way for anyone? So I guess driving Caity to Seattle at 5 in the morning because a Greyhound was full so she could catch a train to Portland was all for my benefit. The dishes. I wasn't home for like 5 days before thanksgiving, and when I was I wasn't there long enough to eat (i.e. dirty any dishes). When I came to the house after you guys had left the sink was full. (well not to the brim, but you know). So I'm quite certain only one dish is mine.
Bah I don't mean to be so snappy, but thanks for apologizing; what you said before was like you were TRYING to hurt me. I know we'll all get along better when we don't live together anymore; Caity and I talked about that before.
I think I'm entitled to live with people who don't smoke. Even as few as once a month is regular enough for my standards. I mean, even I'VE experimented. I have smoked pot before, but that was 5 years ago. I just don't want the stuff or the paraphernalia in my house.
The reason the house was suddenly spotless, was because I was actually home for a weekend, Kyle and I broke up, and I take out my anger, frustration, and general other psychological problems, by cleaning. It's what I do. At least it's productive I suppose... Anyway, Eric never had to clean up after me, and if he bitched about me... well, that's his deal. I never had a personal problem with him.
As for the pot, I don't think you're going to find ANYONE that hasn't at least experimented. That doesn't make it ok to do on a regular basis, not even I think that... but don't rule out a person entirely just because they smoke once in a while. I'd be much less frightened of a baked person than a drunk person, truthfully.
I'm not mad at you because you don't like that we smoke, I don't even really care. It isn't the issue, at least on my end.
I'm mad because this is that straw, Tanya. You haven't said a single nice thing to me that I can remember since I've met you. It's just the sort of person you are. I can't deal with your personality, and that's partlky my problem. I'm a super sensitive person, but you don't really know that about me. You don't really know anything about me. You don't go out of your way for anyone, and it's kind of sad, really. I live to make others happy, and not to offend, but I see you living only to make yourself happy. That doesn't make you a bad person, or me a better person at all, it's just that we see things on a different level.
I hope you find somewhere that makes you happier than here.
If you're actually looking for a place, make sure you let Caity and I know for sure, so that we can start advertising in the music and maybe art buildings, thanks...
Maybe we'll all get along better once we don't live together anymore.
Regarding the dishes, it does smell bad, but I suppose I might as well wash them. It isn't just one dish, it's the entire sink, and Caity and I washed every single dish (with the exception of my coffee thermos) before we left, and there was an entire sink full when we came back, as well as about 10-15 empty and half empty beer cans and coronas when we came back. The house was basically trashed, and I spent a couple hours cleaning it. If they are Eric's instead of yours, I'll just clean them. He doesn't need to be here just to clean dishes, that'd probably just make us uncomfortable, being as now we know for sure that he hates both of us. (ok, NOW I have a problem with him. Oh well, your choice dear.)
Anyway, this is getting SUPER long. I apologize.
You have valid points just the same as we do, and everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I respect your decisions, as you should ours.
Hope you week goes a bit better, Tanya.
that's all.
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Yes I fully intend to move out.
I used to live like you, trying only to please other people, but then I realized I was never happy, and I changed the way I do things.
I don't go out of my way for anyone? So I guess driving Caity to Seattle at 5 in the morning because a Greyhound was full so she could catch a train to Portland was all for my benefit.
The dishes. I wasn't home for like 5 days before thanksgiving, and when I was I wasn't there long enough to eat (i.e. dirty any dishes). When I came to the house after you guys had left the sink was full. (well not to the brim, but you know). So I'm quite certain only one dish is mine.
Bah I don't mean to be so snappy, but thanks for apologizing; what you said before was like you were TRYING to hurt me. I know we'll all get along better when we don't live together anymore; Caity and I talked about that before.
I think I'm entitled to live with people who don't smoke. Even as few as once a month is regular enough for my standards. I mean, even I'VE experimented. I have smoked pot before, but that was 5 years ago. I just don't want the stuff or the paraphernalia in my house.
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