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Looking for Love

Nov 04, 2004 20:00

I was in the shower, brushing my teeth, when a really weird thought flashed through my mind. Like a flash of lightning, it brightened up my blank state of mind. I am afterall, brushing my teeth, and it didn't seemed odd for inspirations, ideas or thoughts of the unusual kinds to make their way into my mind ( Read more... )

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legolas79 November 4 2004, 13:33:22 UTC

Indeed! That was weird. It depends what does gay mean to you. I dare not try to give it a "definition", but I'll define what it means to me.

I have long realised that the wonderful family vision that I had - family dinners, kids running on the beach, happy old parents - has a woman in them. Someone who complete the picture.

Being gay, to me, is to be sexually attracted to a guy. I can never be sexually attracted to a girl.

So, the decision to get into a straight marriage will depends on if you can sexually fulfill your wife? Or, the decision to get into a gay marriage will depends on if your family vision work fine with a man as well?

And I have no idea while brushing teeth in the buff turns you to this kinda of question. I would have been more worried if my nose hair is sticking out or not!

being gay tanneddreamer November 4 2004, 15:29:45 UTC

Being gay, to me, is to be sexually attracted to a guy.Yep. My own definition runs parallel to yours, that to be gay, is to be sexually attracted to a guy... plus a little bit more. That he will eventually be the one I commit my life to and settle down with ( ... )

Re: being gay juzzywuzzy November 4 2004, 22:23:52 UTC

hmmm ... for me, im moving away from being a gay person or a straight person. im being me.

like u, "... I'm attracted to anyone who is able to win my heart many times over, but have been blinded by the orientations of sexuality ..." & more.

it suprised Shima that night when i said a girl is cute, in a good sense as well as sexual sense. but it didn't surprised me, cuz i think since i hv only 1 life, why constrict myself to only 1 kind?

hmmm ... i think i should record tis in my blog as well. :)

Re: being gay immoralfear November 5 2004, 05:12:39 UTC

well put :-)

Re: being gay legolas79 November 5 2004, 14:29:54 UTC

Ah... my wedding "dream" is a little more unreal than yours. Thought of it last year ( ... )

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