Let me tell you something. I'm not speaking for Brett, because that's not my place... but I think it's a safe bet that he will agree with what I'm going to say here.
We all hate who we are sometimes, and we all could be better people. Need we be sorry for it? Let alone be sorry that we're not "perfect" in the eyes of our significant others? We certainly should NOT be.
More often than not, those relationships that seem perfect and peachy are relationships that lack any true emotional connection; nobody is perfect, and it's dishonest, naive, and stupid to think that our partners should be perfect in our eyes, and equally rediculous that we think we should be perfect in our partner's eyes.
I don't want Kate to be "perfect." I'm satisfied with who she is, and I think Brett feels the same way about you. Humans that show no faults, emotion, or anger are usually dishonest and are comprimising their integrity for popularity. I, for one, would not want that in my girlfriend. I'm glad that she has a mind of her own, and I'm glad that her and I can talk for hours about things that we both agree and disagree on.
Essentially, I'm telling you to always, and to continue to be yourself. While it sounds like a lot of people made mistakes last night, it's nothing that can't be resolved with a simple apology from a few different parties, and resolve from the same people to have more respect for each other, as well as themselves.
I can solidly tell you that you are not a bad person, almost solely based on the fact that you're aware that you have your faults. You can't expect to fix them all and be "perfect," and you should purposely do it to please an individual. I think Brett likes you a ton just the way you are; while his words may have been unfair, my guess is that his only intention was to protect you.
And please, everybody, remember that alcohol is a depressant -- these situations are consequences of drinking.
yeah this whole boz thing kills me. i really wish i knew what the hell you guys are talking about. all i know is that this guy does gymnastics or something. right?
We all hate who we are sometimes, and we all could be better people. Need we be sorry for it? Let alone be sorry that we're not "perfect" in the eyes of our significant others? We certainly should NOT be.
More often than not, those relationships that seem perfect and peachy are relationships that lack any true emotional connection; nobody is perfect, and it's dishonest, naive, and stupid to think that our partners should be perfect in our eyes, and equally rediculous that we think we should be perfect in our partner's eyes.
I don't want Kate to be "perfect." I'm satisfied with who she is, and I think Brett feels the same way about you. Humans that show no faults, emotion, or anger are usually dishonest and are comprimising their integrity for popularity. I, for one, would not want that in my girlfriend. I'm glad that she has a mind of her own, and I'm glad that her and I can talk for hours about things that we both agree and disagree on.
Essentially, I'm telling you to always, and to continue to be yourself. While it sounds like a lot of people made mistakes last night, it's nothing that can't be resolved with a simple apology from a few different parties, and resolve from the same people to have more respect for each other, as well as themselves.
I can solidly tell you that you are not a bad person, almost solely based on the fact that you're aware that you have your faults. You can't expect to fix them all and be "perfect," and you should purposely do it to please an individual. I think Brett likes you a ton just the way you are; while his words may have been unfair, my guess is that his only intention was to protect you.
And please, everybody, remember that alcohol is a depressant -- these situations are consequences of drinking.
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*should purposely do it... = SHOULDN'T
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you made me realize things i should have already realized.
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i really wish i knew what the hell you guys are talking about.
all i know is that this guy does gymnastics or something. right?
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