Another woman killed for being a woman.
it is not glorification and fuck you for trying to take away my passion and it being okay for me to brag about satisfaction in an effective evening of tbtn or for me to be upset. and if i feel like i care more then others then let me fucking feel it. back the fuck off and i never want to come to you for support again. i needed an ear not to hear you spew your fucking nonsense. i care two shits. I really do. I dont need you to defend ignorance when i come to you upset by someones hurtful comments. WHAT HAPPENED TO PLAIN LISTENING? SHUT UP WITH YOUR OPINION. DONT SAY A THING. LISTEN. LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. i will always make sure that i only listen from now on. never giving opinion again-ever unless explicitly asked for it. it wasnt even worth it to get into the conversation. By asking about your comments you realize that i do care. well i dont. i dont want to. leave me alone. you and everoyne beacuse i am done. i am done being friends with people that dont understand me. Drew you are right. its lonely. and that is NOT glorification. you will not understand my loneliness. when drew told me awhile back that it gets tiring doing the "teachable moments" i didnt understand. When faced with ignorance or mainstream views that blame the victim i thought i would always be interested in expressing my views or trying to explain the sexist patterns. well its making me sick. i am done trying to get you to realize the truth about violence towards 3+ BILLION people on this earth. T-R-U-T-H. Truth. R-E-A-L-I-T-Y. Reality. this is not "feminists trying to impose their views on everyone else" Cop out. the fact that i even need to work so hard to explain why women are opperssed or why its not okay that there is violence towards women globally makes me sick. it insults the hundreds of millions of women who have been killed because they were women. Their stories that we will never hear. Olamide's story that will never be understood as she experienced it. Lost, gone forever. another woman killed for being a woman.
if people really cared. if people were really mad. if men AND women really had enough it would end. this is not a natural occurence. this isnt something that is bound to happen, ought to happen or should ever happen again to anyone. this is our culture. our history and how our society is set up makes it okay for this to happen. well, i've had enough. why dont more people care? Why do we accept it? is it really because women are taught, brought up learning that this is just the way it is? Bad men will always be therem you have to protect yourself. Change your life so that you are never alone so that you can never drink and go out and party and fuck some random guy if you feel like it just because he might rape you. But men, you go out, you walk around at night alllll you want, you roam the earth feeling fucking safe and drinkign and smoking as much as you want beacause you NEVER have to worry about this. And if i hear ONE MORE person telling me that men get assaulted too i will scream. They do. Many have. BUt doesnt that take the focus away from the INSANE Majority of cases? What is the point in bringing up that men are assaulted rarely? Who brings that point up? OKay fine. men too. END VIOLENCE. is that better because it lessens the guilt that men are feeling? Privilege. The ability to choose not to think about how it affects you or anyone.
if people really cared. if people were really mad. if men AND women really had enough it would end. this is not a natural occurence. this isnt something that is bound to happen, ought to happen or should ever happen again to anyone. this is our culture. our history and how our society is set up makes it okay for this to happen. well, i've had enough. why dont more people care? Why do we accept it? is it really because women are taught, brought up learning that this is just the way it is? Bad men will always be therem you have to protect yourself. Change your life so that you are never alone so that you can never drink and go out and party and fuck some random guy if you feel like it just because he might rape you. But men, you go out, you walk around at night alllll you want, you roam the earth feeling fucking safe and drinkign and smoking as much as you want beacause you NEVER have to worry about this. And if i hear ONE MORE person telling me that men get assaulted too i will scream. They do. Many have. BUt doesnt that take the focus away from the INSANE Majority of cases? What is the point in bringing up that men are assaulted rarely? Who brings that point up? OKay fine. men too. END VIOLENCE. is that better because it lessens the guilt that men are feeling? Privilege. The ability to choose not to think about how it affects you or anyone.