Being naughty

Aug 04, 2008 14:35

So I need some tips or advice...whatever you have I'll take.

Story:   My fiance and I had sex for the first time about a month and a half ago. We have been good friends for about 2 years now and we just never had sex before. He has always been a little nervous or shy around me whenever we would kiss so I thought it was safe to assume that when it came to having sex that he would be the same. I have had sex before and so has he...I have enough experience under my belt that I should feel comfortable. Well it turns out he is not the same shy guy AT ALL. Which I have to admit that is a huge relief. Turns out he is a little more aggressive and that is a huge turn on for me. Anyways when we had sex I felt all nervous and shy, I hadn't felt nervous about sex before so I had no clue why I was acting so scared with him. Well I was so nervous and scared that I was quite most the whole time. Not that I didn't enjoy myself....not the case at all, but i was just quite and obviously nervous because he pointed it out as well. After thinking about it I realized that it has been a very long time since i had an active sex life. So I need to get back into the swing of things. One thing I always wanted to do but just didn't know how (this is gonna sound silly ) is talking dirty while having sex. I don't ever know what to say. I always feel weird saying Pussy and dick...one attempt just ending up making us both laugh because I sounded funny saying it. So could you please give me some suggestions? This will come in handy for us because he is in the Army so I wont get to be with him all the time and so if we could talk a little dirty or naughty to each other then i think that would keep the fire going.
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