Brutal Honesty
I'll be frank about it. I avoid confrontation and attempt to be diplomatic at all times, even when it is apparent that I shouldn't. Obviously though, there needs to be some sort of confronting with the truth to change, which is what this is about.
I already have three things to work on, and a bit more really, from three people who are friends and dear to me. I need to not be so patronizing when I talk, not look for things pertaining to my character first, and actually listen to what people have to tell me when they're trying to help my admittedly low/non-existent social filter. Have a few others to work on as well.
However. This is, like three other people have done, a call for anyone who has a bone to pick with me for something that I've done or an attitude that I present, something that I say, something that I continue to do. It can be minor, it can be major. Say it here, don't beat around the fucking bushes, and we can all be happy. Say it anonymously if you want to, but say it. If you have an argument with something that somebody said? Take it up with them elsewhere, but not here.
Go right ahead and tear into me. If it needs to happen, let it happen.
I already have three things to work on, and a bit more really, from three people who are friends and dear to me. I need to not be so patronizing when I talk, not look for things pertaining to my character first, and actually listen to what people have to tell me when they're trying to help my admittedly low/non-existent social filter. Have a few others to work on as well.
However. This is, like three other people have done, a call for anyone who has a bone to pick with me for something that I've done or an attitude that I present, something that I say, something that I continue to do. It can be minor, it can be major. Say it here, don't beat around the fucking bushes, and we can all be happy. Say it anonymously if you want to, but say it. If you have an argument with something that somebody said? Take it up with them elsewhere, but not here.
Go right ahead and tear into me. If it needs to happen, let it happen.