Jul 09, 2009 19:45
One of the women in my area that I've talked to online several times, but have never met posted her status on myspace. It said something to the effect of 'ready to move on with my life, I can't believe someone could be so heartless...', and her mood said betrayed. In the comments someone asked what happened, and she said she was going through a divorce. Then her mom left a comment basically saying, I know you'll do the right thing, he loves you, he just made a big mistake, her used her'. Which leads me to believe he cheated on her. :(
That makes me so sad. I was cheated on by my ex husband, and it hurt like hell. Everytime he left the house I had an anxiety attack. I didn't even love him, and it still hurt.
I couldn't imagine what it would feel like to be cheated on by someone you love and trust. They've been together since they were like 14, and have 2 kids. She stuck with him through a deployment. I mean, obviously that's what military wives do, but it says a lot about a woman to be away from her husband for over a year (while he's at war, may I add), and come out of it ok.
Bleh. I'm just sad for her. If Ethan ever did that to me, I'd be broken.
Now how much of a hyprocrite do I sound like now?