Yeah you know what Lia? You're right, this is absolute bullshit. If your brother can't learn how to be MATURE, talk to you like a normal human being rather taking it out on you on facebook in public - I'd say that's pure bull right there. Every time your dad behaves like jerk; your brother turns around and acts like you're to blame. Then he throws these fits of anger at you. What the hell? What is he, five years old? The thing is, Ben has the ability to change his life and to turn it around for the better. He chooses not to do it and acts like it's your fault. You work hard, you do your best - you made the decision to make a positive difference in your life and you did it on your own. Why is Ben holding this pity party for himself? It's not as if you haven't been supportive. He's just being an ass and he's selfish.
Yes I know it's been hard for Ben. He doesn't have many friends. He doesn't know how to do many things ... yeah, but maybe there's a reason why. Besides these past years haven't been a walk in the park for you either.
It's great that you want to do something nice for Ben but he has to learn how to appreciate YOU and the gift itself first. Otherwise, screw it. Respect me and I'll respect you. They both need psychological help.
Yes I know it's been hard for Ben. He doesn't have many friends. He doesn't know how to do many things ... yeah, but maybe there's a reason why. Besides these past years haven't been a walk in the park for you either.
It's great that you want to do something nice for Ben but he has to learn how to appreciate YOU and the gift itself first. Otherwise, screw it. Respect me and I'll respect you. They both need psychological help.
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