First of all, I'm sorry you're so hurt. Reading betweren the lines, as I tend to do, I'd say there is a hell of a lot of back story here. Also, I'd say you two should speak in person, because neither one of you is communicating your feelings clearly enough to the other. I think you're both mis-reading some of the emotions connected with some of these statements.
I know me and my friends, and I've had to lose some good ones along the way, would never trust IMs to have a discussion of this magnitude. Go talk to her, with your mouth and your face, and then you'll feel a lot more satisfied, either way it goes.
I mean, friends hang out and then sometimes they go seperate ways, only to hang out again later. People have to have time to follow their own agendas, especially at your age. Unless there are specific betrayals she did, besides just hanging out with other people or something, I don't see why you're so angry with her, or she with you. It seems like you both want to be friends again but that your pride is refusing to let you forget the bullshit in the past. Forgive her, even if she won't forgive you. It's the only way to find any peace at all.
I know me and my friends, and I've had to lose some good ones along the way, would never trust IMs to have a discussion of this magnitude. Go talk to her, with your mouth and your face, and then you'll feel a lot more satisfied, either way it goes.
I mean, friends hang out and then sometimes they go seperate ways, only to hang out again later. People have to have time to follow their own agendas, especially at your age. Unless there are specific betrayals she did, besides just hanging out with other people or something, I don't see why you're so angry with her, or she with you. It seems like you both want to be friends again but that your pride is refusing to let you forget the bullshit in the past. Forgive her, even if she won't forgive you. It's the only way to find any peace at all.
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