Back in black! Oh yeah.. and blue jeans...
So yeah... it's been forever since I've written in this thing, and I'm making the first attempt of the new year at opening up my Livejournal. Wish me luck comrades.
Anyway, I suppose the first thing in order today is to somehow explain to you all how and why I went on hiatus... Either I just got tired of writing in the thing and ran out of stuff to say, or I had a lot of crap to deal with (college and getting a job and forging relationships and such...) that distracted me from my frequent LiveJournal updates.
But now I'm almost on the other side of all that and I have come to a realization. I miss this thing and all my online friends, so basically, I'm trying to go back (somewhat) to the way things were a few months ago. Now.. on to the juicy stuff...
For all who didn't know and still wonder about the issue, Stephanie and I are now officially broken up. At some point she just stopped keeping in touch with me online and went off to some university. While I still wouldn't mind staying friends with her like I was before the whole girlfriend/boyfriend.. "thing", distance and her attitude towards me keep that from happening. Shortly after the break up with her I had another relationship with a certain fur that a few of you may know, but before we got far enough, I realized that I valued his friendship more than the prospect of him as a mate and I made the (hopefully right) decision to break it off. It was during this time that I started exploring my furry and AB side as well. I met a lot of people who are now valued members of my handful of friends, and together we've gone places, met people and had a lot of fun together. (Erf...I also lost my virginity once or twice in the process!) Oh yeah... and besides all that stuff I've been going to school. =P
Now the big news..
At some point within the last 6 months I started a relationship with a babyfur named Kiffin. I've long since proved to myself that I'm not exactly *straight* anymore and Kiffy and I are pretty much infatuated with one another. In November he came up to Washington to look for a job and stayed at my place for about two weeks(He was my boyfriend then and yes, my parents don't know about us ^^; ). My dad was pretty much living somewhere other than my house and my mom was attending a funeral down in Jur-zee, so Kiff and I pretty much had the whole house to ourselves for a little bit. Sadly he had to go back to Cali.. having not found a job here in time (Fry's called three days after he left). Since then we've both practically gone insane with this whole long-distance relationship thing. The good news is that he's coming back to my place in February for keeps. The bad news is that my mom will be home so if we ever wanna not stress about snuggling with one another, we need to find him a job quickly. As long as I keep my job, and he finds one for himself, things we'll progress smoothly. It was a stroke of luck to convince my mother to allow my "friend" to stay at our house for EXTREMELY cheap rent for as long as he needs, but I prefer not to rely on her beneficence for long. She's a bit of a conservative, so if she ever found out ANYTHING about me and Kiffin... Anyway, if everything goes according to plan... he gets a job in March and we move out in May or June.
Anyway, looking back, I realize that the past few months have been primarily concerned with relationships. I feel a little stupid now... having fully exhibited the typical worries of a mild-mannered angsty teenager. It's kind of refreshing to finally get all this out of my system. I'll try to have something more interesting to say in the coming days, but anyway, in closing... Hi again! XD
Anyway, I suppose the first thing in order today is to somehow explain to you all how and why I went on hiatus... Either I just got tired of writing in the thing and ran out of stuff to say, or I had a lot of crap to deal with (college and getting a job and forging relationships and such...) that distracted me from my frequent LiveJournal updates.
But now I'm almost on the other side of all that and I have come to a realization. I miss this thing and all my online friends, so basically, I'm trying to go back (somewhat) to the way things were a few months ago. Now.. on to the juicy stuff...
For all who didn't know and still wonder about the issue, Stephanie and I are now officially broken up. At some point she just stopped keeping in touch with me online and went off to some university. While I still wouldn't mind staying friends with her like I was before the whole girlfriend/boyfriend.. "thing", distance and her attitude towards me keep that from happening. Shortly after the break up with her I had another relationship with a certain fur that a few of you may know, but before we got far enough, I realized that I valued his friendship more than the prospect of him as a mate and I made the (hopefully right) decision to break it off. It was during this time that I started exploring my furry and AB side as well. I met a lot of people who are now valued members of my handful of friends, and together we've gone places, met people and had a lot of fun together. (Erf...I also lost my virginity once or twice in the process!) Oh yeah... and besides all that stuff I've been going to school. =P
Now the big news..
At some point within the last 6 months I started a relationship with a babyfur named Kiffin. I've long since proved to myself that I'm not exactly *straight* anymore and Kiffy and I are pretty much infatuated with one another. In November he came up to Washington to look for a job and stayed at my place for about two weeks(He was my boyfriend then and yes, my parents don't know about us ^^; ). My dad was pretty much living somewhere other than my house and my mom was attending a funeral down in Jur-zee, so Kiff and I pretty much had the whole house to ourselves for a little bit. Sadly he had to go back to Cali.. having not found a job here in time (Fry's called three days after he left). Since then we've both practically gone insane with this whole long-distance relationship thing. The good news is that he's coming back to my place in February for keeps. The bad news is that my mom will be home so if we ever wanna not stress about snuggling with one another, we need to find him a job quickly. As long as I keep my job, and he finds one for himself, things we'll progress smoothly. It was a stroke of luck to convince my mother to allow my "friend" to stay at our house for EXTREMELY cheap rent for as long as he needs, but I prefer not to rely on her beneficence for long. She's a bit of a conservative, so if she ever found out ANYTHING about me and Kiffin... Anyway, if everything goes according to plan... he gets a job in March and we move out in May or June.
Anyway, looking back, I realize that the past few months have been primarily concerned with relationships. I feel a little stupid now... having fully exhibited the typical worries of a mild-mannered angsty teenager. It's kind of refreshing to finally get all this out of my system. I'll try to have something more interesting to say in the coming days, but anyway, in closing... Hi again! XD