How to Screw Up a Sexual Relationship

[tacit]

There are plenty of guides online about how to have a safe, healthy, happy, fulfilling sexual relationship. This is not one of those guides. Instead, this post is about ways you can screw up your sexual relationship--the little tricks and techniques that are sure to doom even the most healthy of relationships and send any hope of happiness

Comments

[sundart]

I like your posts so much that I leave your journal on my default friends page, even though many of them are absurdly long. :) Now *that's* a stirring recommendation!

[tacit]

It's true, I am absurdly wordy. :) But at least this time I took the very unusual (for me) step of including cut tags!

[indywind]

for which I thank you. I appreciate your consideration.

[kiwitayro]

you look really familiar to me! maybe we had classes together? (I went to hampshire) or do you sing in Noho?

[lefthand]

Nice job, mind if I post the link in my journal?

[tacit]

Thanks, and be my guest! :)

[visudo]

Yours is a lucid and witty tongue, my friend. Keep preachin' it.

sounds familiar

[skitten]

yup my ex is guilty of the first two & the last one.... because he couldn't tell me what he wanted & he assumed that I wasn't open to new ideas so he didn't bother to ask me.... & he got someone pregnant while we were still married....

Re: sounds familiar

[tacit]

Got someone pregnant??! Ouch.

It's bad enough when a person cheats. When a person cheats in ways that can't easily be undone, it gets especially catastrophic.

Re: sounds familiar

[skitten]

well he's happily remarried to his childhood sweetheart- I kinda gloat a bit when needs to chase his *four* children *lol*

[takplayer]

I like this a lot, especially the line "f you're doing something you don't think you can tell your partner about, you're very probably cheating." and "Simply talking about jealousy, openly and honestly, without any attempt to justify or rationalize it, can often make it diminish, and remove the feeling that you need to control or manipulate your partner."

Those lines caused me to send a link to this to my engaged friend and my fiancee, respectively. Good read.