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Matt: hey
Me: hi
Matt: how's it going
Me: good
Matt: good to hear
Me: mmhmm
Matt: what's new?
Me: what have you heard?
Matt: nothing for a long while now
Matt: why?
Me: no reason
Matt: is there something i should know?
Me: just some psychoness, which should either smooth itself out or dissect the essence of some friendships, depending on the choices of Addy
Matt: what choices are presented to her?
Me: stop being anal and calm down, stop being obsessive and calm down, listen to us and calm down, stop misinterpreting things and calm down, quit twisting words to make herself a victim and calm down, learn what to do when someone gently tells you a flaw and calm down, stop seeing everything as a personal attack against her and calm down
Me: several really
Me: but the key thread is to CALM DOWN
Matt: ya know, telling me the results without telling me the causes doesn't really help me help everyone
Me: There's nothing short of a personality transplant that'll help you help anyone
Me: We've tried talking it out, but she just ended up throwing a fit and hanging up on everyone
Matt: talking what out?
Me: http://www.livejournal.com/users/bigfish85/
Me: go here and read, starting at the one dated April 6th
Me: you have to read the comments, too
Matt: alright
Matt: finally got through everything
Matt: goddam
Matt: that's all i can say
Matt: goddam
Me: nice choice of words...er...word
Me: Is that all you have to say
Matt: for now
Me: or something like "I hope ______'s spleen ruptures."
Me: Well, when are you going to regain your vocal skills?
Matt: i hope tomorrow
Matt: i'm in town for the weekend, i'm gonna get to work tomorrow and try to help
Me: No offense, Matt, but it's kinda out of your control, cause it's not your battle
Me: It's not even mine
Matt: i'm realizing that, but somebody has to help
Me: In the beginning, it was all in Addy's head, and only she can unscrew herself up
Matt: i used to think that i was teh only one who could do it
Me: And she's not listening to anyone about it
Me: There's nothing you can do
Matt: now i'm the only one who gives a fuck anymore
Me: I don't have anything against her, she's the one who's beant on hating me. Why not just let her, she'll cool off sooner or later.
Matt: all i can see is seething white hatred from everyone, and unless you can prove me otherwise i'm going to assume the same for you
Me: Okay, you're seeing things with the white hatred from everyone, I don't really care what she does, she'll make me upset of a couple minuted when she talks bad about me, but I cool off, 7 + 11 are just upset with her, they'll cool off quickly, she's the only one really hating people
Me: And why would I lie about not hating her?
Matt: i don't know
Matt: but from your responses, at least i assume they're you, it seems like you hate her and ben
Me: I don't hate people, I just judge whether they're being worth my time, and if they're not then I won't get involved.
Me: mine is only tabs_on_it
Me: mrs_dom_mon is black brittany
Me: icheatatlife is Charlotte
Me: honey_brown_11 is white brittany
Matt: i figured as much
Matt: everybody hates each other and nobody is trying to fix it
Me: We tried to fix it
Me: We talked on the phone last night
Me: and she ended up throwing a fit and hanging up
Matt: coulda fooled me
Matt: i believe it was you who told me to give up
Matt: that the group was already dead
Matt: that there was no use in trying to help
Matt: am i mistaken?
Me: I don't hate them
Me: I just don't see a point in continuing a close friendship like before if certain people are going to act like infants
Me: And yes, there is no use in trying to help, so why are you set on trying to do it here?
Matt: would you believe me if i said you guys were my strongest and favorite circle of friends?
Matt: and that if it dies i die with it?
Me: I'd believe you, but I'd tell you that you needed to get out more
Me: Because if Addy keeps acting this way, it's going to die
Matt: dont' try to blame it on one person
Me: She may not be pissing me off as much, but she's driving 7 and 11 insane
Matt: everyone's added to it
Me: Addy flipped out on me first
Me: and then she's done things while the flippage to tick seven and eleven off at her
Me: So this whole mess IS her fault
Me: She made a big deal out of it, she pissed people off at her
Me: I don't see where it can be credited to another person
Me: sure, I said things that made her flip out
Me: but she could have looked at it and said "Well, this is a point, and I'll look out for it in the near future, even thought I don't have to believe it."
Matt: congratulations mandi
Matt: you've crushed me
Matt: right now i don't have the will or patience to continue arguing with you and trying to open your eyes
Matt: the last person who had any willpower left is now weak
Me: You feel like I do with Addy. Very nice. Welcome to the dark side, you big lug you
Matt: don't welcome me
Matt: i come grudgingly
Me: But you're still here, and that's all that matters.
Matt: you on the other hand are all too happy to embrace your anger
Me: I'm not angry. I only get angry in brief moments, then it cools off. I don't have much feelings, remember? Right now the main thing on my mind is how I want to go get a coke, but my foots asleep so I'd probably fall and die on my way out to the garage
Matt: if you're only mad in brief moments, then how come whenever i talk to you about anyone in the group, you have something bad to say?
Me: Because I'm cynical about people, and people don't generally say "Wow, I'm very pleased with Addy/Ben today. She/he did this or that, which was very sweet of him/her."
Me: And I tell you they're frustrating/annoying/pissingmeoff
Matt: when most of the days consist of being pissed off, it's usually the nice things people notice
Me: but they don't discuss it
Matt: maybe if you did you wouldn't be cynical so much
Matt: when was the last time someone did something that you stopped and thought "gee, that was nice"
Me: Last night when I broke Brittany's toilet and she didn't flip out on me
Matt: you WHAT?!?!
Me: even though it flooded the whole bathroom and leaked into the hallway
Matt: how the hell did you manage to pull that off?
Me: I broke her toilet
Me: Well, it wasn't clogged, it just wasn't flushing everything
Me: so I used the plunger, just in case
Me: and I flushed it again
Me: and the water started rising
Me: and rising
Me: and rising
Me: and it kept going for, like, six minutes
Matt: great
Me: and went down the air ducts and leaked onto the basement carpet
Matt: that really sucks
Me: but we cleaned it all up, and I'm allowed back in her house although for about 14 hours I was banned
Matt: hahaha
Me: yup
Me: I found it a bit amusing myself, once the fear and "ohmigodI'mfucked" feelings wore off.
Matt: i would too
Me: because hey, it was a toilet
Me: and toilets are always funny
Matt: that they are
Matt: and i know funny
Me: mmhmm
Matt: i need to get some major sleep
Me: Alright
Matt: night
Me: g'night