In a bit of a delema of sorts

[tabascodan]

Alright, this is nothing bad in fact it's something very good, or might be, but I need some advice. There is a girl at the local market, and I have a thing for. Shes a cute blond that loves anime, both huge pluses. But then at the sandwich counter, there is another girl there, that I think has a thing for me, and I return it as well. The anime

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[dragonfires]

So you are TOTALLY OUT of a relationship with Mekie?
If thats correct, do NOT go asking anybody out. You are in the recovery phase. The best thing to do is to let things happen gradually. Its like withdrawl. Now that you've gotten admitted to being over something, your brain can only partially be reasonable. Part of you says 'Im cool...no worries, Im able to control my emotions' Whereas your BODY signals say 'WOA! Im free, have a new start, lets make the most of it ASAP with anything that comes along!'

Be careful.
I suggest not jumping into anything with the INTENT of establishing a relationship. If the anime girl comes over, discuss anime! have fun! watch some anime together! discuss your fave chars...this shouldnt be a date, but a natural progression of getting to know eachother, with NO pre-intentions other than just that (getting to know eachother ...as FRIENDS)

The shy girl at the store...just, when you see her...tell her 'hi!' and see if she returns it. Dont flirt per se, but if she's looking particularly nice, let her know! just dont make a spectacle of yourself and try not to embarass her (*so many rules ahhh!!!)

Bottom line, RELAX. You're in a different mode now, like being released from a tether and all you want to do is RUN!! remember, like exercise, you need to do it in moderation, don't over work yourself, keep your self in check, STRETCH!! and do things GRADUALLY.

Hope that gives you something to work with

*All advice copywrite Dr. Z (lol!)

[tabascodan]

Yep the Mekie thing is well gone, I'm totally done with her. I feel very good right now probably the best I've felt in a very long time. I totally agree on the anime girl she was over yesterday and we just talked thats all, for her I don't want to rush into anything. The sandwich girl on the other hand is a bit more out going then I thought she was I think. (super cute)

But after a bit of thinking I'm quite cozy right now ^^ being single that is, I like having time and I don't feel bad about neglecting time with my friends for someone else. On the metaphor though the best thing I've been doing for my self has been exercise, I love seeing results and realizing that I started out lifting "x" and now I'm up so much more.

Thank you so much ^^ I really needed another view on whats going on lol