Awesome advice...
...for so many areas in life, not just dating:
"Fuck YES or No"
There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on - a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. [...]
If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost.
The entrepreneur Derek Sivers once wrote a blog post where he said that “If I’m not saying ‘Hell Yeah!’ to something, then I say no.” It served him well in the business world and now I’d like to apply it to the dating world. And because I’m more of a vulgar asshole than Derek is, I’ll christen mine The Law of “Fuck Yes or No.” [...]
The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not excited to be with them.
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"Fuck YES or No"
There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on - a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. [...]
If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost.
The entrepreneur Derek Sivers once wrote a blog post where he said that “If I’m not saying ‘Hell Yeah!’ to something, then I say no.” It served him well in the business world and now I’d like to apply it to the dating world. And because I’m more of a vulgar asshole than Derek is, I’ll christen mine The Law of “Fuck Yes or No.” [...]
The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not excited to be with them.
This entry was originally posted at http://syredronning.dreamwidth.org/1534714.html. Feel free to comment anywhere.