The Time for Civility is Over
I have not told this to anyone, but in relation to the recent drama over a 'former' friend, I recieved a voice mail from him on Tuesday night. It said (paraphrasing from my voice mail):
"Hey. Sorry for being such an ass. Things are a little complicated. I was trying to avoid hurting anyone, though of course everyone got hurt anyway. So I'm currently working on setting things to right. I just wanted to say sorry and that you've always been a hell of a friend. I just wanted you to know that. Take care, allright? Bye."
I didn't want to pick up the phone at the time. The drama was at fever pitch, and my emotions just couldn't take that call. After I had finally had a good cry over the situation, I decide to text back. "I got your message. Apology Accepted. Take care, you. *hugs*"
I thought it was over. I thought I finally had my closure.
Boy, was I wrong.
Today, I get a text from him (or, more likely, his wife niki2008 (who's journal exists at the time of this writing.... btw, if she is reading this... Hi Niki!! *waves*), saying:
"I should not have contacted you the other night, I was letting the guilt get to me. I should have said that the way you treated me and my wife was wrong. Now fuck off and don't contact me again..."
Well, I didn't PLAN on contacting Sean, and since his LJ is dead and I'm putting this here, I'm STILL not contacting him.
The time for 'civility' in an apparently futile effort to save your feelings is over. It's time for my own dose of 'petty vindictiveness'.
Sean, your last post said something to the effect of 'not glossing over' and 'getting this all out in the open.' Well, okay, "you" (and/or your wife) asked for it. So to you, I write this little letter.
Dear Sean.
Thank you for your request for my true feelings. In response to your request, I will provide the following:
From what I've seen of her, I have come to the conclusion that your wife is a 'drama bafoon' bitch who can't keep her fucking mouth shut and is too busy baiting your former friends to get herself off on some sugar high to promote her 'innocent wife' image (and thus get her claws deeper in to you) to care how you or anyone else feels.
A week ago, you claimed to be a paladin. Paladins do not do what you are doing.
In the ten years that I have known you, never once have I heard you swear. Now, I have seen it twice in the same week. Happy people do not pick up new cussing habits. Therefore, I conclude that you are not as happy as you claim to be.
I have heard that you have converted, or are converting to Judaism. If that is what you want and makes you happy, good for you. But, your actions today have been a piss-poor representation of your religion, and you should know better. I would pray for your soul, but that might be too close to contacting you for comfort. We can't have that, can we?
Given the behavior patterns that you and your wife have exhibited since her arrival in St. Louis, I can see one of three things happening. 1) She will leave you for a better sugar daddy. 2) You will resent what she has forced you to give up to have her. 3) The veil of happiness will be removed and you will come crashing back to reality... and not like what you see.
Luckily, for you, you might still have friends who will comfort you when that happens, despite all of the bridges that you (and/or your wife) insist on burning into nothing but fine ash that blows away in the wind.
You will reap what you sow, and there has been nothing sown by you (or your wife) except needless drama and pain. When it is time for you (and/or her) to reap... choke on it.
Sincerely,
The Handmaiden from Hell.
"Hey. Sorry for being such an ass. Things are a little complicated. I was trying to avoid hurting anyone, though of course everyone got hurt anyway. So I'm currently working on setting things to right. I just wanted to say sorry and that you've always been a hell of a friend. I just wanted you to know that. Take care, allright? Bye."
I didn't want to pick up the phone at the time. The drama was at fever pitch, and my emotions just couldn't take that call. After I had finally had a good cry over the situation, I decide to text back. "I got your message. Apology Accepted. Take care, you. *hugs*"
I thought it was over. I thought I finally had my closure.
Boy, was I wrong.
Today, I get a text from him (or, more likely, his wife niki2008 (who's journal exists at the time of this writing.... btw, if she is reading this... Hi Niki!! *waves*), saying:
"I should not have contacted you the other night, I was letting the guilt get to me. I should have said that the way you treated me and my wife was wrong. Now fuck off and don't contact me again..."
Well, I didn't PLAN on contacting Sean, and since his LJ is dead and I'm putting this here, I'm STILL not contacting him.
The time for 'civility' in an apparently futile effort to save your feelings is over. It's time for my own dose of 'petty vindictiveness'.
Sean, your last post said something to the effect of 'not glossing over' and 'getting this all out in the open.' Well, okay, "you" (and/or your wife) asked for it. So to you, I write this little letter.
Dear Sean.
Thank you for your request for my true feelings. In response to your request, I will provide the following:
From what I've seen of her, I have come to the conclusion that your wife is a 'drama bafoon' bitch who can't keep her fucking mouth shut and is too busy baiting your former friends to get herself off on some sugar high to promote her 'innocent wife' image (and thus get her claws deeper in to you) to care how you or anyone else feels.
A week ago, you claimed to be a paladin. Paladins do not do what you are doing.
In the ten years that I have known you, never once have I heard you swear. Now, I have seen it twice in the same week. Happy people do not pick up new cussing habits. Therefore, I conclude that you are not as happy as you claim to be.
I have heard that you have converted, or are converting to Judaism. If that is what you want and makes you happy, good for you. But, your actions today have been a piss-poor representation of your religion, and you should know better. I would pray for your soul, but that might be too close to contacting you for comfort. We can't have that, can we?
Given the behavior patterns that you and your wife have exhibited since her arrival in St. Louis, I can see one of three things happening. 1) She will leave you for a better sugar daddy. 2) You will resent what she has forced you to give up to have her. 3) The veil of happiness will be removed and you will come crashing back to reality... and not like what you see.
Luckily, for you, you might still have friends who will comfort you when that happens, despite all of the bridges that you (and/or your wife) insist on burning into nothing but fine ash that blows away in the wind.
You will reap what you sow, and there has been nothing sown by you (or your wife) except needless drama and pain. When it is time for you (and/or her) to reap... choke on it.
Sincerely,
The Handmaiden from Hell.