Japan's apartments! - as the sun goes down waking up my dreams, in my mind you're with me once again

[sylvir]

I was Skyping with my boyfriend a while back and he told me that the apartment he and I lived in while I was in Japan was known for it's "thick walls". I have it in quotes, because 1) we could hear a man snoring every freaking night 2) when the neighbors were downstairs, we knew they were downstairs 3) when someone knocks on the neighbor's door, it

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[jonjonxd]

I did visualize it...and now...I feel like a pervert.

Thanks

[sylvir]

Yeah... Not sure how to respond. It's the internet and I can't hear your tone, but I just wanted to say I'm sorry if this post made you uncomfortable~ I mean it~

[jonjonxd]

It didn't make me feel uncomfortable. no worries haha

Understand that my friends and I in RL (women included) are very open sexually and discuss it a lot. No worries, I was just teasing you :p

[sylvir]

Hah ok XD You kind of scared me for a minute... I felt like I had done something I shouldn't >.<.

[jonjonxd]

you'll never see me telling someone they did something they shouldn't have when they're "getting their freak on" with a lover in a serious relationship.

FYI haha

[jonjonxd]

As I always say in RL, you gotta cash in on that relationship :p

[sylvir]

Lol~~! But the couple in the drawing really isn't us..... Maybe just 10% But missionary is a very common position sooo *shuts up*

*Nods* Definitely~ XDD... Wait cash in as in CASH IN THE BED ACTION or just... Enjoy the most of it XD

[jonjonxd]

i'd recommend more ;)

I did totally mean cash in the bed action haha.

Cmon relationships can be really stressful...you gotta cash in on that time and emotional investment ;)

[sylvir]

Ahaha XD

I DO! I TRY~ It's just, he's so far away ;-;

[jonjonxd]

Phone sex is fun. I enjoy it.

[sylvir]

I don't think I can do that .___.

But you just reminded me that I took a book off my boyfriend's shelf and brought it back to the US. It's about learning dirty Japanese, with chapters on swear words and things in bed among others XD

I need to go memorize some words/phrases from that book for the future XD;

[jonjonxd]

Why not?

[sylvir]

Hmm~~ I guess the best way to phrase is that I would feel embarrassed doing it, so I don't do it D:

But I don't think phone sex itself is embarrassing ^^

[jonjonxd]

yeahhh...give it a minute or two...then u get into it.

girls have it way easier. If you just speak softly and say things like "inside me" and stuff...the guy gets riled up pretty easily.

[sylvir]

Haha XD I just saw this... Aaah, when you tell me things like "if we just speak softly and say things like 'inside me' it gets the guys riled up"... It really makes me feel like we are very empowered... And I totally wanna try it to my boyfriend now xD; But I don't think I should, I would just be teasing him >.

[jonjonxd]

lol

Seriously though, at least the next time you see him, just be like

*leans against gently with your face close to his and places hand softly against his wherever and starts to breath softly*

"...I've missed you so much....*

*breathes softly onto his neck and/or ear*

*insert some suggestive speak*

*more light breathes*

I'm serious...this works so well.

.....ugh...sometimes I feel like I should have been born a woman. So much teasing to be had....then again...I've done similar to women (of course, from the man's point of view and how men get a woman's gears going) XD