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[sylviastout]

I love AMDA. Everyone here is just so supportive. Even though really... we don't know each other all that well. I mean, at the end of the day I'd say that there are 2 people in the world who really 'know' me, Shiraz and Liz. But still everyone is so great no matter what. Even if it's a personal issue, not something professional. We're all here for

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[anonymous]

You make it sound like said person wants it to go back to how it was. Which is quite wrong. That person never said horrible, hurtful things about you, they stated how they felt after the way YOU treated them. You weren't the most supportive or friendly person at times, and other times you were downright hurtful. No one would listen, so they wrote it down somewhere. If that is a crime so be it, but on the same token you never asked about it, you never brought up that you felt upset by what they said even after the fact that you hadn't been talking to them in how long? To top it off, saying said person was a rebound was rather harsh, you usually don't get engaged in rebounds... maybe you do, but most people don't. Said person never asked for justification, but merely confirmation that you were in fact referring to them in that context. Lastly, said person was not the first to email you, you sent them an email several months back titled "checking up", which went unanswered because what is said person supposed to say to someone after they say and do so many things to destroy other relationships said person has with others.

You won't return that person's email, then that person will leave a post here. All they want is a confirmation that you did think of everything that happened as a rebound, and said person will go away.

I am posting anonymously because YOU know who this is, and that is what matters, I didn't want to post here but you refuse to respond in a more private manner. All I want is one answer, or even an email saying "leave me the hell alone" and I will disappear.

Said person really never did and still doesn't think of everything that happened between him and you as a rebound, and never will.

I suppose what bothers said person the most is that when the 2 of you were still talking you said quite a few things that meant a great deal to him. Consecutively since last november you have been more and more and more hurtful, and now all they want is a simple yes or no answer and you won't even give them that?

yes or no... thats all they want in reference to the question asked.