ok tenile dear. couple things. first, i know all about why jeff broke up with me. and im pretty sure that jess was the one who ended it with jeff for scott, not jeff who ended it for me. jeff and i always had something, and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one. so i graciously stepped aside and waited til jess was bored, and then got him back cause i knew that was what both jeff and i wanted. and it wasnt easy, but we have been working really hard, and that is what having a relatiohship is all about.
2nd, he wasnt saying to put significant others before friends, or the other way around. he was noting the importance of having a good combination of the 2.
there is a humongous difference between being paranoid and caring about someone, and i dont have enough time in the day to explain it to u.
he wasnt bringing up the alcohol part jsut for u. and like he said, it is not an excuse. if u know how ur gonna react to it, then act accordingly and dont drink, or limit urself. i really dont think anyone was forcing u to drink
lastly, hes not trying to run peoples lives. for the last time LJ is not LIFE!!
"so i graciously stepped aside and waited til jess was bored, and then got him back cause i knew that was what both jeff and i wanted." i resent that. I NEVER asked Jeff to break up with you for me- NEVER. so don't treat me like i was trying to steal your boyfriend- I was happy for you two- i ENCOURAGED you two. He is the one who broke up with you for me and at the time i was confused. a few weeks later I realized who I really had feelings for and it wasn't Jeff. and I broke up with him- not because I was bored- but because i saw the light. "and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one" i never got involved ok? Jeff came to MY house and told me he still wanted me and i said okay well go tell Quira because it's not fair. i never asked for another chance. even Jeff can back me up here. the whole Jeff thing fell right into my lap and i decided to see what i can make of the situation since i figured Scott would NEVER like me back (which my thinking is a little diffrent now) so yeah i dated Jeff. i figured out i didn't want Jeff so he went back to you- he never stopped liking you even though he told me he did like me better when we were going out. i didn't beleive him on that one. i'm very glad you made the relationship work- you guys are meant for each other not me and jeff. i'm still looking. i'm waiting for Scott. so please stop saying that stuff- it makes me sound like a ho.
"sorry to tell you that happened before him and jess went out." ok that is bullshit, ur not sorry. and it doesnt even matter, cause ur not telling me anything i didnt already know.
2nd, he wasnt saying to put significant others before friends, or the other way around. he was noting the importance of having a good combination of the 2.
there is a humongous difference between being paranoid and caring about someone, and i dont have enough time in the day to explain it to u.
he wasnt bringing up the alcohol part jsut for u. and like he said, it is not an excuse. if u know how ur gonna react to it, then act accordingly and dont drink, or limit urself. i really dont think anyone was forcing u to drink
lastly, hes not trying to run peoples lives. for the last time LJ is not LIFE!!
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"and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one" i never got involved ok? Jeff came to MY house and told me he still wanted me and i said okay well go tell Quira because it's not fair. i never asked for another chance. even Jeff can back me up here. the whole Jeff thing fell right into my lap and i decided to see what i can make of the situation since i figured Scott would NEVER like me back (which my thinking is a little diffrent now) so yeah i dated Jeff. i figured out i didn't want Jeff so he went back to you- he never stopped liking you even though he told me he did like me better when we were going out. i didn't beleive him on that one. i'm very glad you made the relationship work- you guys are meant for each other not me and jeff. i'm still looking. i'm waiting for Scott. so please stop saying that stuff- it makes me sound like a ho.
Jess
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Again, I told quira all this already so it really doesn't matter.
And dont' worry people that have confided in me, I won't betray that trust out of spite like some people.
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