Jan 05, 2008 13:23
so kelli's getting a divorce from her psychotic husband. she had been hiding all of his horrible secrets until now, last night she told me all the terrible things he's done, now that they're splitting up. some of the things she was telling me were just appalling, i couldn't believe it. it's so bizarre what's happening.
they were only married for two years... its pretty sad actually. and now she's saying she'll never re-marry. i feel really bad for her, but i told her that it would be different next time. when she got married to anthony she'd only known him for like.. what 6 months? maybe next time she'll actually wait a little while.
i know for sure that i would want to be completely sure. i wouldn't care if it took ten years, i don't want to be legally bound to someone who is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. actually i don't think i would want to be legally bound to anyone at all. why can't people just be together without getting married? i would tell her all this but my entire family is one big block of narrow-mindedness. if mindedness is even a word? i dunno.
anyway my own opinions and views are not exactly acceptable or practical to anyone in my family. but that's okay, because i know what i think and i know i can give good advice to my sister. and i can feel happy knowing that i'm not as close-minded as they are.
i'm just glad i don't have a stupid boyfriend to stress about.