sometimes things arent always as they seem.

Dec 15, 2005 22:34

i have faced a series of rejections throughout my life. so much so, that, i almost expect it alot of the time. and i deal with it, and i move on. but when i do it to someone else, its like the world is crumbling down. what the hell? boys, help me out on this one. why, when i tell a boy i like him as a friend, and i think hes cool but not to date, ( Read more... )

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tommyoftheks December 16 2005, 09:23:01 UTC
sorry, I posted that only having seen the info, and it reminded me of that lyric from a NIN song.... But I just read your post and I don't know if this helps, but my experience is that (generally speaking) guys don't really ever start to like a girl like that. If a guy enjoys those things with a girl (talking, IMs, all that stuff that girls do, but maintain the 'just friends' relationship), then he likes her, and would probably date her. I mean, I'm not saying that a guy can't have friends that are girls, its just that if a guy has a friend that is a girl, and it ever gets to the point that he would say something like "i miss [her] annoying ims and [her] constant text messages," then he knows that he's got feelings for that girl. I don't know maybe that's just me. But generally, if I miss certain things about a girl, that is why. Now, I know this is gonna come off as horrible, and I don't really want to explain myself right now because it's awefully late, but maybe that is just something that is specific to me, because I never really miss people. Especially people that I have no intimate interest in. Trust me, that's not as bad as it sounds, it just means that I don't get that yearning sensation to see a person... Generally the only time that happens is when I know I will never see someone again, like if they die, or move to mars or something. Anyway, relationship BS sucks. Not like, the BS that you deal with in a relationship, but the BS that is involved with searching for relationships and all that jazz. Oh well. Have a good night.

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sydule December 16 2005, 17:49:28 UTC
wait, i was saying that i missed the ims. but i dont really anymore. because it happened like everyday for a week, and now that's changed, so its different. but i still feel bad.

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tommyoftheks December 17 2005, 15:46:36 UTC
well, I don't know if I came off as condemning you in that whole post, but if I did I'm sorry, I don't think there is anything wrong with you, I think you're a cool girl, and you will have success in relationships. I have to believe that about myself or I'd go insane, because it hasn't happened yet.

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