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Ms. Kate* is apparently a very sheltered closed minded person. She feels that everything must go her way and that the world really does revolve around her. She and her fiancee have been engaged at least twice and their wedding is set for January '08. Ms. Kate is of the pentecostal(sp?) religion. (smirk). Ms. Kate thinks that everyone should have a boyfriend or girlfriend or she'll try and set you up with someone because she thinks y'all would make a cute couple. Even though, you've voiced your opinion and said that the person she's trying to set you up with is like a brother to you. Ms. Kate is now trying to get other people to help her find me a man. I have been both polite and bitchy about this and have continuously asked her to stay the hell away from my love life. It's none of her concern. and yet it seems like it all goes in one ear and out the other. Ms. Kate also doesn't understand why my close friend is gay. For some odd strange reason, she finds it gross with will quote the bible. (smirk). So, I along with two co-workers have tried to explain to Ms. Kate that we don't understand the glbt community either but we're not going around making them feel bad or quoting the bible and as Ms. Madame said, it also states that in the bible you aren't suppose to judge others. (smirk). Ms. Kate may think she's an open-minded person but she isn't. and I don't think she ever will be.
I'm trying to understand something. If you feel the need to drink alcohol every time you feel stressed or upset or just cause you're going to hang out with others, then doesn't that make you sort of an alcoholic? and why is it such a big deal that when you want to drink others have to do it too or it just doesn't seem right or something? Why does she feel that cause its her wedding that everyone else must act like planning her wedding is our whole entire world?
I'm also trying to understand something else. Since when does it matter that I don't have a boyfriend? It has never mattered before, why does it matter now? Since when am I suppose to be getting married before graduating from college? I would really like to know. Why has it become such an issue that I don't want one now. According to my friend, he has stated several times that I don't need one right now. I wouldn't have time for him. which is true, I wouldn't. I have stated that fact also. There is nothing wrong with couples and engagements and things of that nature. Its just that when people start to make it seem like "oh, being in a realtionship is the best thing in the world." its starts to bother me. Especially when a person dwells on it! I'm asking all these questions because Ms. Kate can't answer them and becomes frustrated with me because I'm asking them to her. So, if there isn't a better answer than "just cause" then I don't think that this issue is worth discussing.
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I'm trying to understand something. If you feel the need to drink alcohol every time you feel stressed or upset or just cause you're going to hang out with others, then doesn't that make you sort of an alcoholic? and why is it such a big deal that when you want to drink others have to do it too or it just doesn't seem right or something? Why does she feel that cause its her wedding that everyone else must act like planning her wedding is our whole entire world?
I'm also trying to understand something else. Since when does it matter that I don't have a boyfriend? It has never mattered before, why does it matter now? Since when am I suppose to be getting married before graduating from college? I would really like to know. Why has it become such an issue that I don't want one now. According to my friend, he has stated several times that I don't need one right now. I wouldn't have time for him. which is true, I wouldn't. I have stated that fact also. There is nothing wrong with couples and engagements and things of that nature. Its just that when people start to make it seem like "oh, being in a realtionship is the best thing in the world." its starts to bother me. Especially when a person dwells on it! I'm asking all these questions because Ms. Kate can't answer them and becomes frustrated with me because I'm asking them to her. So, if there isn't a better answer than "just cause" then I don't think that this issue is worth discussing.
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