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[sxejulz]

Why is it so fucking hard for two people to get their shit together, and why do so many people want to spend their lives with ONE person? The problem is we can't find a balance. Being with one person all the time is just stupid because you annoy the crap out of each other making you want to get away from them, but spending time apart, well, puts

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[puzzledstars]

i think sometimes relationships needs breaks. i've realized with the relationship i'm in now, the amount of time we've been together doesn't really compare, but we broke up for like 3 weeks and i absolutely hated it. we didn't really break up b/c we were at each other's throats or anything, it was pretty much that we needed to see the direction we were going in. i felt pretty miserable the whole time and he was pretty much all i could think about. i guess that's just what it took, with us being apart for us to realize how much we really needed each other.

but with breaks in relationships, i dated a kid for like 1.5 years and we broke up and basically never talked again. it wasn't really my choice and it took me a long time to get over b/c i still really wanted to be with him. but then i looked at it as i really don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. i think about the times that we spent together and i learned a hell of a lot from that relationship. i thought so much more would come out of it, but we spent our last year of high school together and so many memories and good times come along with that. i just think that it was a part of life that he was there for and even though it may not have come out how i wanted it to, i'm glad he was there for a lot of the experiences i had. the thing that sucks is i wonder how he feels about the whole subject or if he thinks about me from time to time. i still care about him and would like to know how he's doing, but he lives in a completely different state now and like i said, we haven't really talked. it would just be nice to be friends now since it's been years since we broke up.

[sxejulz]

Its hard, when your in a relationship, to look outside of it and realize if where your going with this person is where you want to go. Thats my biggest problem, I get to where I want to be with them even if the air they exhale kills me.
Thanks for sharing :)