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Before I would rush to the computer just to write out my thoughts and I haven't been doing that lately.
Today I got a flat tire. I got out of the car to see the damage, and yes it was flat. I look around not happy at all because it was freakin hot outside so I call my sis. The moment I call her and ask for her assistance this guy pulls up behind me to save me! It was the wierdest thing. I didn't even ask for his help he kind of just took control and did everything for me. Now I am a professional at changing tires but I wasn't about to say no to his help. He takes out his handy jack and starts to go at it. All I did was take out the spare. He was done in like 10 minutes or less. He was very quick. He was an older man probably in his 50's or early 60's..so nice..
Made me think of what type of guy I would want to marry. I mean I would want a guy to help a girl out like that. Now of course I'm not doubting women..of course we can open our own doors, pay for our own dinner, and say nice things to ourselves. But it is nice to have someone say or do those things for you because they want to. Not that guys don't deserve the same..but I just like that old fashion type thinkin'. I always think that way. If a guy really is interested in me he will call, he will ask me out on a date, and he will want me to be apart of his life. So many times do I find myself finding these dudes that I know aren't good enough but I let them pass anyway. Since I've been sex free for 3 months now, stopped eating meat..you know...full on Vegetarian lol. I just have that much more self worth for myself and its wonderful. Yes it gets lonely, yes it is hard, and yes I want to give in. But I won't..it will be worth it in the end. Now to hold me over...I have toys. =)
So before I decide to go crazy over some dude there are a few things I'm lookin for.
1. He has to call me first.
2. He has to ask me out.
3. He has to like me for me.
4. He can't be afraid to dance on the dance floor even if he is horrible, atleast he is having fun!
5. He should want me to be around his friends and want to be around my friends as well.
6. He can not be ashamed of the music I like. Now he doesn't have to love everything I love but atleast be open to it..
7. He has to love kids. I have a big family!
8. He has to love to cuddle.
Now I'm not trying to be stuck up but I think these are normal things a girl should want, some added things that I have had trouble with in the past. To be completly honest I really haven't been feeling alone. I mean I don't really get the attention I would like from guys but its not bringin me down. You would think that with all the bad stuff that has happened to me I would be such a sad depressed person, yet I'm not. I know why things have to happen..and I accept it.
I wonder who will be the one I call "the one".
Today I got a flat tire. I got out of the car to see the damage, and yes it was flat. I look around not happy at all because it was freakin hot outside so I call my sis. The moment I call her and ask for her assistance this guy pulls up behind me to save me! It was the wierdest thing. I didn't even ask for his help he kind of just took control and did everything for me. Now I am a professional at changing tires but I wasn't about to say no to his help. He takes out his handy jack and starts to go at it. All I did was take out the spare. He was done in like 10 minutes or less. He was very quick. He was an older man probably in his 50's or early 60's..so nice..
Made me think of what type of guy I would want to marry. I mean I would want a guy to help a girl out like that. Now of course I'm not doubting women..of course we can open our own doors, pay for our own dinner, and say nice things to ourselves. But it is nice to have someone say or do those things for you because they want to. Not that guys don't deserve the same..but I just like that old fashion type thinkin'. I always think that way. If a guy really is interested in me he will call, he will ask me out on a date, and he will want me to be apart of his life. So many times do I find myself finding these dudes that I know aren't good enough but I let them pass anyway. Since I've been sex free for 3 months now, stopped eating meat..you know...full on Vegetarian lol. I just have that much more self worth for myself and its wonderful. Yes it gets lonely, yes it is hard, and yes I want to give in. But I won't..it will be worth it in the end. Now to hold me over...I have toys. =)
So before I decide to go crazy over some dude there are a few things I'm lookin for.
1. He has to call me first.
2. He has to ask me out.
3. He has to like me for me.
4. He can't be afraid to dance on the dance floor even if he is horrible, atleast he is having fun!
5. He should want me to be around his friends and want to be around my friends as well.
6. He can not be ashamed of the music I like. Now he doesn't have to love everything I love but atleast be open to it..
7. He has to love kids. I have a big family!
8. He has to love to cuddle.
Now I'm not trying to be stuck up but I think these are normal things a girl should want, some added things that I have had trouble with in the past. To be completly honest I really haven't been feeling alone. I mean I don't really get the attention I would like from guys but its not bringin me down. You would think that with all the bad stuff that has happened to me I would be such a sad depressed person, yet I'm not. I know why things have to happen..and I accept it.
I wonder who will be the one I call "the one".