To all...
I am writing this post to say that I will be ending my livejournal account very soon. This has actually been a long time coming. The truth is, I've held on to it longer than I should have. If you would like to stay in contact with me, you can email or find me on facebook. If you have no desire to do either than I wish you all the best.
As I said, this was a long time coming. Today I realized that people I thought were my friends really weren't. The fact is someone did something innappropriate that I called her on. Instead of being mature about it, I received 4 messages about how delusional I was, wrong I was, and finally the messages descended into a weird rant with a lot of swearing. Not only that, but apparently she shared my post with some BC&S people who were laughing at me. Wow.
If you don't know what happened, feel free to check Janet's post about it. She copied and pasted it for you to read. I am not going to stoop to her level and do that because I do not require any validation for what I did. You may think I was wrong, but I feel that posting a poll on a married man's facebook page about whether you would kiss him is NOT APPROPRIATE. You can say it was "innocent" or "in good fun" or whatever. It was wrong. And I called her on it, and she went off.
I am not asking anyone to agree with me. This was my choice. It wasn't my wife's choice. I chose to delete Janet as a friend on facebook because she did step over the line. I did it for myself, for my wife, and for my marriage. To the people that may believe my wife wears the pants in our relationship: you do not know what you are talking about. I am far happier now in my life than I have ever been. This first month of marriage has been absolutely amazing and I will do ANYTHING to keep my wife happy because that is what she deserves.
So, I am ending my journal. You can find me elsewhere online if you would like. If you do not want to be my friend than please don't pretend to be. And if you are a friend of mine on facebook and don't want to be, please go ahead and delete me.
It is sad, because I came to BC&S when I had no one and I met a lot of nice people. Then most of us moved here and we stayed close. If you choose to remain my friend, I look forward to hearing from you.
Mark
As I said, this was a long time coming. Today I realized that people I thought were my friends really weren't. The fact is someone did something innappropriate that I called her on. Instead of being mature about it, I received 4 messages about how delusional I was, wrong I was, and finally the messages descended into a weird rant with a lot of swearing. Not only that, but apparently she shared my post with some BC&S people who were laughing at me. Wow.
If you don't know what happened, feel free to check Janet's post about it. She copied and pasted it for you to read. I am not going to stoop to her level and do that because I do not require any validation for what I did. You may think I was wrong, but I feel that posting a poll on a married man's facebook page about whether you would kiss him is NOT APPROPRIATE. You can say it was "innocent" or "in good fun" or whatever. It was wrong. And I called her on it, and she went off.
I am not asking anyone to agree with me. This was my choice. It wasn't my wife's choice. I chose to delete Janet as a friend on facebook because she did step over the line. I did it for myself, for my wife, and for my marriage. To the people that may believe my wife wears the pants in our relationship: you do not know what you are talking about. I am far happier now in my life than I have ever been. This first month of marriage has been absolutely amazing and I will do ANYTHING to keep my wife happy because that is what she deserves.
So, I am ending my journal. You can find me elsewhere online if you would like. If you do not want to be my friend than please don't pretend to be. And if you are a friend of mine on facebook and don't want to be, please go ahead and delete me.
It is sad, because I came to BC&S when I had no one and I met a lot of nice people. Then most of us moved here and we stayed close. If you choose to remain my friend, I look forward to hearing from you.
Mark