So I've been thinking a lot lately about guys. Shocker I know, but guys.. help me out here.. What's w/ the whole "she likes me, i don't really like her, i have to back off" deal? I can totally understand not liking her, but do you have to be so distant? Just tell her how you feel and be friends w/ her. It seems everytime I start to like a guy, they
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"Is that ya'lls way of gettin us to stop likin you? Cause if it is, we won't even wanna talk to
you ever again, let alone like you."
amen ;)
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*applauds that he had the guts to say that*
i do that way too often. i mean i'm not exactly rude (i hope), but i get sorta standoffish if i know a guy likes me..especially if he's coming on too strongly..it's just discomfort translating to unintended abruptness, and i wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys do it as well. and it could be too that they aren't used to knowing someone likes them and they don't know exactly how to handle it, which i can certainly empathise with because i know that feeling all too well. my opinion is that if they're getting to the point of being rude because they can't handle the situation with grace, they aren't emotionally mature enough for a relationship anyhow. and if you realise that and he realises you realise that, maybe he'll come around and you can be just friends again. :o)
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