Can somebody clear this up for me..

Jul 26, 2004 16:38

So I've been thinking a lot lately about guys. Shocker I know, but guys.. help me out here.. What's w/ the whole "she likes me, i don't really like her, i have to back off" deal? I can totally understand not liking her, but do you have to be so distant? Just tell her how you feel and be friends w/ her. It seems everytime I start to like a guy, they ( Read more... )

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truebluebe July 27 2004, 09:10:05 UTC

"Is that ya'lls way of gettin us to stop likin you? Cause if it is, we won't even wanna talk to
you ever again, let alone like you."

amen ;)

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sweetsylvia July 27 2004, 15:51:57 UTC
you know you love me for that, hehe :)

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beccaboshmecka July 27 2004, 14:22:14 UTC
Some guys are totally like that, others are not. I guess April's trying to ask the guys who AREN'T like that why other guys are. Atleast that's what *I'm* doing, lol. So... WHY??

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Guys. (for give the grammer and spelling i am tired) superfarmertan July 27 2004, 17:01:14 UTC
Well because it seems no other guy has posted yet. Are they scared to answer this because they fear the wraith of women? Maybe But i have stopped fearing women long ago ( ... )

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Re: Guys. (for give the grammer and spelling i am tired) sweetsylvia July 27 2004, 17:07:07 UTC
I apologize to you on behalf of women, we make mistakes too.. it's different when it happens to you tho, and you don't do it yourself. I know some guys don't like us, but why can't they still be nice? Do they have to be mean and ignore us? That costs you a friendship and trust, b/c if you end up deciding to talk to us, why should we care? You ditched us the first time, not gonna let it happen again. I hate this topic, b/c it happens all the time, and I don't know why. Just tell the girl you don't feel that way about her, and be friendly.. you can at least be civil toward her.

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reflectthemaker July 28 2004, 03:17:36 UTC
"But its not only males that do it."

*applauds that he had the guts to say that*

i do that way too often. i mean i'm not exactly rude (i hope), but i get sorta standoffish if i know a guy likes me..especially if he's coming on too strongly..it's just discomfort translating to unintended abruptness, and i wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys do it as well. and it could be too that they aren't used to knowing someone likes them and they don't know exactly how to handle it, which i can certainly empathise with because i know that feeling all too well. my opinion is that if they're getting to the point of being rude because they can't handle the situation with grace, they aren't emotionally mature enough for a relationship anyhow. and if you realise that and he realises you realise that, maybe he'll come around and you can be just friends again. :o)

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