Apr 01, 2005 06:59
So my 26th birthday was yesterday. I took the day to tie up loose odds and ends with bills and such. I called to check on my disability claim , since it has been almost 4 weeks since I went on maternity leave. Whenever I called it said the were closed which made no sense. So I used the automated option and theres no record of me even filing a claim. So either disability is being screwy or Kaiser never sent the papers in. Kinda got me a little worried. Scott makes enough to barely cover our expenses so we are ok. Just be nice to have the extra money when the baby comes. The 1300+ we had to pay in immigration fees kinda set us back a little. Another thing I was a little confused about was why I havent been getting child support checks. My part of Tylers fees for April are due and for some reason I havent gotten more then 50 from his dad in a month. So I called the child support agency. Patrick told me he had a new job and that he let them know of it so they could deduct from his checks. When i talked to the lady she said they had no record at all of it. So not to suprising he lied. She did a check on his social and nothing came up. She said it usually takes about 60 days after filing a w-4 for them to be able to find it. So she asked me if I might know where he works. He mentioned something about getting a job for the city and he lives in Austin. Sure enough she put me on hold and talked to there payroll. He was definately working there. They faxed out a copy of the order for child support and as of today there going to be deducting from him. She says if I dont recieve anything by the end of the month to give them a call.
So then theres the issue of Tylers daycare. I have a program that helps pay for a part of his daycare. I talked to the lady before and she said when I went on maternity leave it was fine if he stayed on the program. So then I call them up as soon as I go on leave. Dont hear back from them so i call again a few days ago. They finally call me back and tell me I cant have him in school anymore. It will save me money and we get more time together but Im sad cus he loves going to school so much. Its good for him to be around his friends and everything. I guess this gives us more time to work on kindergarten stuff. His school hasnt been too succesfull in that. He needs to work on letter identification. We have tons of books we work in it just takes some time getting him to concentrate for me.
So yeah Im so sick of being pregnant if anyone cares. I wanted the baby here before my little sister left. I just dont understand it. I always thought I got my dates mixed up on my period cus scott would have had to be in canada when I would have tech gotten pregnant. So I thought I was farther along. Unless I was drug ged raped and returned to my original state afterwards theres no way its someone elses. So yeah Im due tomorrow and no baby. That was the due date they gave me after the first ultrasound. The other one was april 5th according to my period. So I swear this baby is ready to come out and she just doesnt want to. Tyler was 2 weeks early and already over 7 lbs. I cant imagine how big shes going to be if shes late and her dads already a giant. Scotts 6'3 and about 230. Im a little afraid of how big this baby could be. :/