It’s easy to forgive but isn’t easy to forget.

[sweetjayguitar]

At work David called me up and asked me to bring home some dinner because he went all day without food because he says to have no money, now I know that he did (some coins in the jar, enough to buy at least three double cheese burgers.), but even if did I don’t think he would have gone out to get himself something to eat. But no worries I would bring home food, tonight I brought home Mac and Cheese from work, pre-made and frozen and only 70 cents a serving size. I brought it home, heated it up, and then in less than 5 minutes flat hand food on the table for him and all I get in return is how much he hates it. That to only get for him what I know he likes and don’t bring home anything I’m not sure he will like or not. I handled the situation with as the least amount of argumentation possible. I finished my dinner and then got up and left the apartment and drove to McDonald’s. When I returned I walked into the apartment and gave him the burgers and then went into the bathroom to wash up. When I got out he gave me a hug and apologized. Of coarse I accept, but this thing and others like this happen so often how do I get past it and not hold a grudge?
Holding grudges is my weakness.
How do you get past a grudge?

September 7, 2006
Some days you just realize that you love somebody so much that your willing to just put up with it.