Feb 04, 2005 22:08
Career wise, I'm finally at a place I'm content with. Marriage wise, I'm drawing a blank. There's so much to say about being married, but nothing to say. Is that confusing? I have so many comments on committment and building a marriage, but no answers. In my own eyes, a marriage needs building and rebuilding, no matter how much you love and care for another. Love is not enough to make a marriage work. Suspense, appreciation, COMMUNICATION, trust, care, and embraces are all components necessary for a stable marriage. However, these components only contribute when both parties believe. If one doubts their future or keeping looking ways to get out, how is this marriage going to work with one variable missing. Being married so hard. I'm an emotional person and very committed. My definition of committment is different from many people. I'm old-fashion. I believe that one man and one woman can fall in love and live happily ever after or just be in love with each other and be faithful. How can a marriage work when one party is not sure of the future of the original two party. Negative vibes travel through air, so it reaches out to the other. How can you tell whether a marriage had failed? When will you know for sure if life needs to move?