Oct 02, 2006 07:06
I don’t get it, how can people say that they are “in love” after like a week after dating. Love takes time; it takes a lot of time. So does this mean if I meet a boy we start dating does that make us in love? I can understand if you have been dating him for like a year, then you’re more than likely in love. Maybe this is something I’ll never get since I think I didn’t have a first love yet. I think your first love in the one you can’t forget about you still secretly think about them and everything that you had. Maybe I think Keith and I weren’t in love because he wasn’t. Doesn’t love take two people? If yes then why do people cheat on the people they “love” or are the just with that person to waste the time. I guess it is just because love is a big part of our live and if you not “in love” then you are a failure. I don’t maybe it is something I don’t believe in. Maybe I’m over thinking thing again. Maybe I’m crazy. I don’t know. But all I know is my heart never skipped a beat with Keith. I got butterflies, they didn’t last long though. All I know is love isn’t sex...sex is sex, and your not in love if you are just having sex. I know I have much to learn being 15 and writing about love if it is something I didn’t experience.