fears
I've figured out that one of my biggest fears is that people are too nice. That they are too nice to admit to themselves and to those around them how they really feel about a situation or a person. Then a person goes on making their life decisions based upon all this false information. And I think that is how people get hurt. Nice people who can't be mean just end up hurting people. Isn't it selfish to not explore how you honestly feel and not to express that regardless of how much it hurts you to hurt someone else? Why do I have so much trouble believeing people's kindness is genuine rather than some kind of selfish escape?